@ 84, THANK YOU JESUS, SOMEONE gets it. I'm feeling you up until the contrast part. I don't totally disagree with you; I'm just saying that as this is new for her, they need to have a conversation about preferences. Who's to say that this is his first time? I'm not trying to put the man on front street. I'm just saying that as a woman, I would want to know how deep this went. It could be completely harmless, but I can guarantee that if I were in her shoes, a serious conversation would ensue. It's all about communication. The fact that he sprung on this on her mid act says that someone hasn't been talking about something. They can move on from there.

okies first of all. LOTS of things cause AIDS, not gay or nongay peoples. certain born with it and some stupid enough to keep it hidden an go around f*cking lots of other people giving them the disease. its not just in one gender or in one race, its in ALL of it. thats how its taught anyways. second. that would be kinda cool that he IS so open to you like that, i agree with somma the others it mighta been nice for a heads up but then again, maybe he was just in the moment and thought it would be okies. either way hope whatever your reaction things turn out alright for you two :]

Me and my boyfriend had anal.. and everytime he asks to do it again, i tell him only if i can do it to him! So he can know what it feels lika haha. but he never lets me.. i think it'd be fun to use a strap on on him!

This is HORRIBLE! I must ask why you let him try anal on you in the first place, but I that is really sick that he has a gay side. I'd break up with his **** ass.

WOAH! #84 I don't care how much information you want to get to back up your claim. Once a man decides to get penetrated by a strap on he automatically goes into my "Sexually Confused" book. As for the topic, serious FML there. I'm at a loss for words as for what I would do in a situation like that. I'm a guy so just imagining it is straining my brain.

#55 and #87 - I know. It's not like I said anything that you didn't agree with. If you thought my comments were not in agreement with yours... re-read my comments.

Haha, does anyone else find it strange that he just pulled out a strap-on out of nowhere? They're pretty hard to sneak by without noticing, I mean, it is a giant fake ****. Was it like wild west gunslinger style?

he could be the love of my life but I would still dump him... I mean come on...

Holy freakin' crap! I would be traumatized if my husband pulled out a plastic replica of male genitalia and asked me to put it on myself. I'm a bit conservative, though. If that's cool with you, cool. but since you posted on FML, I would say you weren't to keen on it either.

thats creepy as hell