By cheerbabeXoXo - 29/06/2013 21:49 - United Kingdom - High Wycombe
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This! Confidence is key in attracting someone! Looks are only top priority if you are looking for a one night stand. Personality is what matters in a relationship. Heck personality is the reason I'm someone who identifies as lesbian who is dating a man. I can tell you physical attraction was zero at first because totally wrong gender... But he was so sweet, kind and funny I was able to overcome that. We've been together 4 years.
I agree. Unfortunately we live in a very shallow society where people openly admit they wouldn't date someone based on one 'negative' (according to society and media) detail of their appearance. OP probably has this. If this is the case or if not, you'll find someone OP!
Why is everyone babying OP? His dad is probably just frustrated that his son is just always on the computer and never goes out or something, and is just venting, trying to say something that'll motivate OP into changing his ways. OP needs to stop feeling sorry for himself and posting shit on here, man up and go find someone. They're not just going to fall into your lap.
If that be the case then his dad needs to grow a pair of balls and just outright say he thinks his son needs to change a few personal habits instead of beating around the bush and being a jack ass to boot (ironically though a friend and I were just talking about how it seems that nerdy guys have bigger dicks. we've concluded this is gods way of leveling the playing field)
Ignore bastard parents. Some people, sadly, should have never been allowed to have children. Your parents sound like they fit into that category. Be proud of who u r!