Why? Why would you say it's the best experience when you have never experienced it? It is something I hear all the time, "You will never know true love until you experience it! With a child! Who will wake you up, cost almost half a million to raise, and force you to be parents when you don't want to! So much love!" You have never been a parent, so you cannot say it will be love and joy. And even if you were, each person is different.

I hated kids, but having your own is different and you can't know that you will hate being a parent until you become one. She is already pregnant and pretty far along so why not give it a shot. Worse thing that happens is she can't stand her own offspring and allows the adoption agency to go ahead with the adoption. (There are agencies that give you time with your little one before they have you make a decision) It doesn't cost near that much to raise a baby. That is if you buy tons of baby clothes and stuff that you don't really need, brand new, and name brand. Then go on and do the same thing as it grows into a kid and a teenager. My grandmother never made that much my whole childhood never mind spent that much on me. Sure I didn't get everything I wanted but I had everything I needed. Oh and my mom, that let my grandmother raise me and my sister "loved kids" and "always wanted to be a mom" while I was always uncomfortable around kids but could never think about life without my babies.

Yes it is because by that time it's not abortion. It's infanticide. Once a fetus becomes self conscious and has a good chance of living outside the womb, it is no longer just a fetus but a baby. I'm not anti abortion as long as it is done early, but late term abortions make me sick. Look up photos of partial birth abortion. It's disgusting.