If OP posts her FB account, I'll be sure to give it to 4chan. FYL

ydi for having a wife who wouldn't otherwise have facebook or a cell phone.

thats kind of what is happening to my parents too! kind of.

That's really ****** up. Apparently she's been unhappy for awhile though. She really should have said something though.

Same exact senario happened to my uncle about a month ago, and they have 3 kids together....just remember it's happening to someone else too. Hang in there. Everything happens for a reason and time heals all wounds.

She probably really loves him...so you just need to move aside and move on.....

Well... look on the bright side. Irony is the new karma, so at least your keeping up with the fads!

If this is crew, then Hi dad. It's your Daughter Savannah. If not, then I understand the situation. this EXACT same thing is happening to my family. And when i say exact, I mean exact. Being the middle child in this situation ( I have a little brother and a older sister) Sucks. I can't do much to help, but I can't avoid trying to help. I don't think they should divorce. Marriage is sacred and breaking it apart basically craps on everything i've been told to aim for in love and marriage. Mom is in the wrong by doing this with her ex even if it's only flirting. I hate how she keeps hiding stuff and changing passwords. She hides in her room and talks on the phone all the time and acts happy when she comes out. I don't think it's the ex, but I always wonder. Also, my dad's kinda at fault too. He ignores her pleas for attention and stays pretty neutral in the situation. Basically what i'm trying to say is you guys need to communicate and WORK THIS OUT! Kids don't like seeing their families torn apart and if you do, you'll be just another Statistic of american divorce. That's crap and what I've always been told to avoid. WHAT kind of example are you setting if you avoid the situation or just give up? AGAIN if this isn't my dad, sorry, if it is, God's pretty funny. I found this post through a friend who happened to see it by accident. God obviously want's me to be aware of the situation and maybe it's because you need a wake up call. I'm here to talk, but you choose not to. Maybe this is God telling you to reconsider. Savy

to #61... wow. Just... wow. To the OP- yikes. No offense, but it wasn't facebook or a cellphone. Clearly she wasn't content or w/e in your relationship, and if she is considering her options (at least as far as you've insinuated she is), methinks you should decide for the both of you and sink this ship. It's already on fire.

ok well a few things about 4 months ago my wife at the time did the same thing face book and the cell phone a lot on the cell about 1200 texts in less then a month so needless to say it has not ended well she is no longer my wife though i still care for her very much but despise all she had done this is not the half of it but u get the jest of it face book sucks big fat ones and so do ex boyfriends and in the the lesson we learn for this lovely thing is when u **** with someones wife u better believe that someone is gonna show up one day to kick the shit out of you when u least expect it.