By j.b. - 02/12/2009 05:57 - United States

Today, I found out that my husband thinks its okay to have an online girlfriend and have naked pictures sent to his email because he's not "physically touching, making love, or kissing". The sad part is that the online girlfriend gets more action than me. FML
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Moemoemoe_fml 0

Your husband is a jerk and is cheating on you. That's not how marriage works. Also, while it would have been okay if he was just having an imaginary girlfriend or even were touching himself while looking at a made-up character.... it's a whole other world when it's a real girl and they're interacting as a couple, physically together or not!!

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intensitive 11

He's not stopping you from having an online boyfriend.

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PleaseSayTheBaby 0

stfu everybody. it's just pictures. all men look at ****. even your boyfriends/husbands do. you stupid *****. deal with it.

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monnanon 13

**** is fine, talking to another person and sharing naked pictures of each other behind your partners back is not. **** is just harmless fantasy

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hairtodaygonetmw 0

**** is not fine, my parents are divorcing over it. Harmless? read previous sentence repeatedly until you get it. Wife, dump him. I just love how people assume its the womans fault for not "doing what youre supposed to do" - maybe just maybe the husband is a scumbag and has an online girlfriend (for now, who knows if/when they'd meet) and should be apologizing, not justifying his actions. Sorry for you

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cradle6 13

81- Just because someone is divorcing over it doesn't make it bad. I think that's a ridiculous reason to divorce unless he was doing it constantly and to an unhealthy amount.

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baby_gurl2405 0

Maybe you should instead of waiting for action, wear something sexy and get to making some ;-P

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prajna 0

You know, ppl seem not to understand what it means to share. I am willing to bet this "online gf" never is a permanent as your marriage. Let him get all energized up from this girl, then **** the shit out of him. Your sex life will thank you.

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FPsLife 5

Why don't we all just have one big orgy while we're at it. No need for you to share your corrupted views of marriage.

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Whydoyouask 11

Agree FPsLife LOL, I love it when people like this comment. Makes you wonder who they're learning from.

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wellinever 5

It doesn't matter whether he met her or touched her. You are bound to feel let down by this. What matters is how you feel about it, and what you decide to do about it. You know all the choices. Your move.

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RufusCade 7

And why do I get the feeling that you're not getting any action because you didn't give him any action before? There's a saying: "Blow your man - or someone else will" That's a good way to win him back BTW... YDI

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SE3 0

"You call it an affair because it is an affair. People can argue that they didn't have physical sex and therefore didn't cheat all they want. But the fact is that he spent time, resources and emotions on another woman in the place of spending these things on you" Stand true, don't back down and if he gets in a hissy fit. Then I think it's time to call it quits. Obviously this guy doesn't respect you or give you the emotional support that you need. It is NOT okay. It's never okay. The people saying "Oh it's okay" have obviously never been in a relationship of the level required to be married. Marriage is about devoting your life to your partner. And this is not what he's doing.

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perstephane 4

"stfu everybody. it's just pictures. all men look at ****. even your boyfriends/husbands do. you stupid *****. deal with it. " Ok, let's clarify something here. Duh, men look at ****. My boyfriend does, and I even look at it with him. And I don't care one bit that he does. THIS is not looking at ****. It's interacting with an actual person who's interacting back. When was the last time the **** you were looking at stopped so that the girl in it could as you for some e-mail or naked pictures?

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Thecommish 0

he's getting something in that interaction that he's not getting from you. what he did is wrong, but I wonder what the general state of ur marriage is. r u growing a part?

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kernelkat 16

That's why you should always have the "how do you define cheating" conversation with your partner early on in the relationship. You can't assume they share your views. I know a guy that thinks it's not cheating as long as there is no gential to gential contact. I bet his wife doesn't know that.

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