By jsalmons - 02/06/2011 17:39 - Germany
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Humans aren't meant to be monogamous--making her (or anyone) go without for a year would be a pretty cruel demand! At least now you know who she is sleeping with and you can make arrangements with her and the third party such that you know she will be baby and disease free.
#282 you're a dumbass. There are millions of military wives that stay true and faithful to their husbands while they are away for longer than a year! It's part of the wedding vows that you will stay faithful to your spouse for the rest of your life. By sleeping with that other man (Before he even left!) she was breaking a sacred vow!
SOME people don't want to be monogamous, but that should ALWAYS be talked over with the partner. Polyamory(more than one partner) is different from cheating. All members know and accept it. If you don't want to be monogamous, that's a huge thing to bring up with your partner and you NEVER cheat on them if you actually care about them.
Pimp slap her for me will ya? People like her piss me off, buy a damn dildo and call it good if you can't handle your man being away for so long.
Yea screw that most definitely get a divorce... I told my husband that before he deploys either we are going to make a mold out of his ding dong or he's buying me a dildo and he's getting a pocket p*ssy that way we both won't have to be sexually deprived while being faithful at the same time...
Yeah she doesn't need a man to be sexually satisfied, but it sounds like she doesn't have the willpower to not be close to someone like that. When my boyfriend went away for 6 months I remained faithful. How? After a couple of months of going cold turkey, you get used to it and it doesn't bother you anymore. You should tell her to suck it up (not sexually) or you'll leave her.
Don't give the whore a second chance. I'm tired of people cheating and getting away with it over and over again. She knew what the fuck she was getting into when she married a soldier so she should of knew this type of length times away in a different country was bound to happen. I mean for fucks sake if you can't handle being with one person through thick and thin why in the bloody hell would you get married?! No fucking reason, if you just want sex be fuck buddies but for christs sake don't do this shit to people who expect to have a faithful partner when they are out defending our land and freedom be it in Germany or America they are keeping everyone safe. Common sense and self control are slowly dying out to the point where I'm losing faith in humanity. /end rant
Im sorry but how can cheating by worse just because it is against a solider. What about the millions of faithful wives who spent 6 to 8 months alone when their husbands are working on the oil rigs in the North sea. They are keeping us supplied with power and may die in the process. Soldiers do a very dangerous job and believe me I appreciate the work they do but that does not make everything that is done to them worse than if it happened to someone else.
Not all women are horrible. My cousin had a woman he married before being deployed, wanting to ensure that she was taken care of while he was gone. Got his truck repo'd and all his money from the bank accounts gone and she was with other men. He's now married to someone else, though, and they have a family. Some people are just really fucked up. There's many stories I know about cheating women, but I have faithful ones surrounding me and I am completely faithful despite being in a LDR. I can't understand cheating, many people I know feel the same way.
People are so faithful these days. There needs to be a reality show where the host tries to look someone who will value a relationship even if it is not solely based around sex. It will be hard to find anyone.
this is the best reply I've ever seen someone post on fml! I would never, ever cheat on my partner despite the fact he's in the merchant navy and I go long periods of time without seeing him or having any kind of intimacy. I believe that if you love someone, they're definitely worth waiting for and that if you're not happy with someone, you should tell them and try to resolve it. ditch her, you can do a lot better!
No, no #9. They're easy to find. We're right here. At our computers. Because all the unfaithful people have forced us to recluse to our computers. We're also known as those people they complain about never finding as you stand right there going "Hey. Yea, I could, you know, be a great boy/girlfriend for you." and all they go is "Haha, no. You're too nice." All of this while they complain about trying to hook up with their cheating ex. P.S: Rage much of my own? Maaaaaybe.
My girlfriend and I have been together for a while now, and are planning on getting married, we've both made the decision to wait to have sex until after marriage, and both of us are virgins still. Sometimes its really hard to resist, but honestly, it makes the relationship that much better when you actually develop a connection to that person OTHER THAN just physical...that's just my opinion.