Out of simple curiosity, how exactly did he turn it around on you?

For example one time we got in a fight about me going out to lunch with my friend (who is a girl) because he never wanted me to do anything without him. Later I found out that while I was at lunch he sent flirtatious texts to a girl. I asked him about it and he was like well you left and I was bored you should have hung out with me instead. He obviously was sneakier about how he'd say it but somehow the argument would end with me feeling like I was a horrible person. He was also my first boyfriend and I didn't know things like this weren't normal. I'm ashamed to say this lasted for 3 years before I finally broke up with him. Manipulative people are no good.

I had a similar experience #83. My ex of 5 years ditched me for someone else and apparently it was my fault because I didn't bake him enough cakes and that meant I didn't care about him. *Baking cakes is not a euphemism, that is literally the excuse he gave, despite the cake/pie tin always being full.* I figure I'm better off without him.

Rapunzel: Why not just go out together? Plus, you should've ended it when you found out about the texts. Raesin: Wow… just because you didn't bake cake all the time?!?

#98. I tried that multiple times. He never wanted to hang out with my friends it's hard to explain but unless you've been in a controlling relationship you won't understand. I tried breaking up with him countless times and I don't know how but at the end of our arguments I'd be the one saying sorry. I'm sure there are people who understand this but not everyone can. He was manipulative and it took me a long time to realize what exactly was happening.

There's a ******* button for that!!! . Sorry for the rage, but people need to see the buttons before typing a dumb ass comment like this... Lol.

She could go "Bobbitt" on his penis :D

I like your thinking! I mean why off him so quickly when you can prolong his suffering?!

Hide it somewhere no one can find.

Feed it to the piranhas??? LOL

I reckon superglue his penis to his leg and rub birds eye chillis (small hot ones) in the crotches of all of their underwear! It's dries clear, no smell, but put the pants on and they burn like a mofo. (Just ask my ex PMSL)

Yeah, some friend huh. What about the husband? Excuse my language but **** her friend, she can always find new ones... But her husband was suppose to be till death.

I wish we could divorce best friends and get half of everything they had. That'd make stronger friendships.