How did that come up in conversation?

I think OP found the restraining order, which the father keeps as memorabilia.

I assume OP is his favourite child ....

Something tells me that the wife was most likely unaware of the significance of the name.

Or she stalked the same women

Aww I can se ops parents then, young and stalking together

...Indiana Jones?

#12, sorry, dude. My other alternative was to mention that I actually named my daughter to honor my beloved late grandpa, but it coincidentally happens to be the name of a girl I had a crush on in college (I liked her, but she wasn't stalk-worthy.) I would LOVE to bump into her at a college reunion and try to play it off like I named my kid for her. Her reaction would be priceless, or at least $11.83. I should have consulted you first. I apologize.

#34, I used the feminine form of his name. I made that number up out of thin air. That reminds me of that chiche where someone says, "If this can help just one person, it will have been worth it." I'd like to see someone say, "If this helps 8 or more people, it will have been worth it, but if it helps 7 or fewer, then this was just a fucking waste of time!"