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Cut your losses. Better to lose the money for the wedding than to go through a divorce.
@55 - Pretty sure that's just TV where that happens, particularly when it comes to money. Now, you if there were kids to fight over... In any case, the wedding ceremony has nothing to do with whether or not the OP and fiance are legally married. Best solution: un-invite the fiancee's side of the family, and throw a giant bachelor/ette party at the venue.
Then make him pay your back for everything you paid for. Or you could just make him promise not to cheat again and continue with the marriage , sorry that happened to you OP
This is a true fml... I know this doesn't help but, better to lose money than to lose wasted years. Feel better, op.
Maybe turn the wedding into a break-up party? Keep the strippers, kick out the priest?
Dumb his dumb self then see if you can sell the wedding you would e surprised how many people would buy it.
Do they know you found out? If not, go through with the wedding, and call them out on their bullshit at the altar. They deserve to be publicly humiliated for being that big of an asshole.
I agree it's not the most mature approach, but cheating isn't mature either. I was cheated on before I met my husband, and it hurt like hell; I can't imagine how badly it would hurt to have the person you want to spend the rest of your life with cheating on you. Justice should be served somehow, I would think.
My only problem would be if any guests at the wedding had to buy plane tickets or something to get to there. I don't think I'd be very happy to have to travel a long way to get to the wedding only to find out that there wasn't really gonna be one, whether I was a guest of the cheater or the cheated.
You sound more upset by the money then the fact that you're with a cheater. Priorities.
That's not how I read it. I think the details about the financial aspect just add to how badly this sucks; if OP had found out much sooner, s/he could've broken off the marriage without losing money. Now s/he will likely break off the marriage AND lose a ton of money.