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Atleast you didn't marry him yet...
Who says it isn't her who's cheating? No way do we know a girl is writing this FML.
Who says its a girl writing it? Maybe she's cheating on him.
Because if it was a girl, OP would have written fiancée.
64- your comment was similar not exactly the same. 58's idea was to call them out infront of everyone you just said to say no at the altar. I like your idea better. My thumbs up is for you not 58 :)
Or marry "her" yet. It's not always a guy.
I was hoping to see at least one person pointing out that we don't know the gender :D
The OP typed fiancé and not fiancée, the former being male and the latter being female.
My fiancé is a girl and we say fiancé. Not fiancée. Your point has now even made invalid
I'm not entirely sure what you meant but the words are pronounced the same. When you are writing or typing fiancé is understood to be male and fiancée is understood to be female, which is why they are spelled differently.
He felt the need to cheat why? He asked Op to marry him why? He is a dumb **** why? Cheating is okay to him why?
Well the fact is she probably did the same. Statics show that any way. Even after they have been married for awhile.
135, wtf?
144. I just realised we have the same birthday, but you are 5 years older!
Oh, those statics. They get me every time!
125 : you're right, because fiancé is a french word, and so there is a difference with male and female words.
Pay for a wedding or divorce... It is up to you.
not sure if I'm a genius, or some of the comments I'm reading are making me feel like a genius
Say that to OP's face. I dare you.
Cut your losses. Better to lose the money for the wedding than to go through a divorce.
^ That's the easiest part. "My husband is a cheating, man-***** with a small dick so I decided to call things off. Sorry if you already paid for your plane tickets. Please call the jack ass at (555)-555-5555 if you need to take out your frustrations at someone."
Well if she married him then proved he was cheating she could take half his shit, the cheaters tend to get screwed in divorces
@55 - Pretty sure that's just TV where that happens, particularly when it comes to money. Now, you if there were kids to fight over... In any case, the wedding ceremony has nothing to do with whether or not the OP and fiance are legally married. Best solution: un-invite the fiancee's side of the family, and throw a giant bachelor/ette party at the venue.
I second that.
Love the party idea! If you have a caterer, they haven't bought the food yet, so they could still let you cut back the number of guests.
Aww thanks, Babe!
I like your thinking :)
Then make him pay your back for everything you paid for. Or you could just make him promise not to cheat again and continue with the marriage , sorry that happened to you OP
Yes, because the promise of a cheater is completely trustworthy.
Only if it's a pinky promise.
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Show it anywaySecond chances aren't for everything, that's why you need to value what you have while you have it. Thinking that you "deserve" one for something like cheating is just an excuse.
if you let them try again once, they'll think they could cheat again.
You all bring up valid points , I get what you all mean I didn't think of it like that when I put the comment up :D
Beside 140, it wasn't just cheating, it was cheating knowing he would get married soon. I don't think he will regret anything !
This is a true fml... I know this doesn't help but, better to lose money than to lose wasted years. Feel better, op.
She's already lost both :/ Depending on how long they were dating...
I wonder if you could sue someone over it? In these circumstances, you really should be allowed to!
'murica! sue ALL the people!
Wait, what makes you think the cheater was a he? Women cheat too.
Fiancé is a man fiancée is a woman.
Maybe turn the wedding into a break-up party? Keep the strippers, kick out the priest?
I think the proper solution is to throw an empty plate at his windshield.
50- Nah, I don't think that's it.
Keep the strippers???? People are having strippers at their wedding now???
Wow, that's terrible. :( I hope your fiancé does the embarrassing explaining to your family. He/she deserves to feel like an asshole.
Dumb his dumb self then see if you can sell the wedding you would e surprised how many people would buy it.
Dumb his dumb self?
Selling all or parts of the wedding is worth a try. I've known couples whose photographer, caterer, etc. got ill or went out of business at the last minute.
Selling a wedding package is a smart idea too.
Do they know you found out? If not, go through with the wedding, and call them out on their bullshit at the altar. They deserve to be publicly humiliated for being that big of an asshole.
I agree it's not the most mature approach, but cheating isn't mature either. I was cheated on before I met my husband, and it hurt like hell; I can't imagine how badly it would hurt to have the person you want to spend the rest of your life with cheating on you. Justice should be served somehow, I would think.
Cheating isn't a private manner.... A relationship is for two. If he wants to bring other people into it so can she.
My only problem would be if any guests at the wedding had to buy plane tickets or something to get to there. I don't think I'd be very happy to have to travel a long way to get to the wedding only to find out that there wasn't really gonna be one, whether I was a guest of the cheater or the cheated.
Harsh... but a good idea
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Cut your losses. Better to lose the money for the wedding than to go through a divorce.
Atleast you didn't marry him yet...