and thats why you do that AFTER you get married

Sounds vexing. Whichever choice you make, it will bring nothing but misery. I'm sure you know that already. I'm only re-enforcing it. It's just like every other choice you will ever make; each path leads to desolation and despair. You might as well flip a coin. Be careful not to lose the coin when you flip it though; when your husband gets fired, you will need all the currency you can get. Life. Don't talk to me about life.

plan a head ydi

Anna's gonna be pissed that you're ratting her out, Iggy.

well if you cancel the honeymoon he still has the great paying job that can afford another honeymoon later on :)

38--- but of course to OP it wouldnt be the same

well cancel and reschedule it sucks, but would you rather have a honeymoon and an unemployed husband or not have a honeymoon but have an employed husband. it's an easy choice especially if it's a well paying job

Go with a friend.

awwww FYL op.

77 got the idea. enjoy the vacation. do the honeymoon another time. in this economy good paying jobs are hard to come by

Try to sell the tickets and stuff at a discount price so you can at least regain some of what you paid. That really blows tho

Op is grossed out by seamen. So they had to cancel the cruise. Seamen.

magnavox = virgin d bag. no one cares what you have to say, you waste of space POS.

yea u can just bring a friend instead or something or try and sell the tickets

beneficial?

Efficient and beneficial, because it works.

was that a fight club reference in the rules? cool if it was

Of course not, they only have one rule and that is "Never talk about fight club" but you made me talk about it so I'm dead. :(

j5p332 - benefitial as in which of the options will do most for the OP and her finacé in the long run. And yes, lthomps, it was a reference. And actually, timma, they have two rules. :P

Agreed. Unless the OP's husband will be making less than the honeymoon costs, cancel the trip and reschedule for a more convenient time. In the meantime, plan a romantic "staycation" somewhere nearby. Sex is sex, pretty much anywhere you have it.

Yes it does. OP's fiancé has a well-paying job that he's going to get fired from if they go on their non-refundable honeymoon. So they have to choose whether to go on the honeymoon and have her fiancé lose his job, or cancel (or postpone) the honeymoon so he can keep his job. What's not to get?....

Which bit makes no sense? There is a reason at the fiancé's job that he can't take that holiday without being fired. It might seem odd, but there are some things. Especially when it's a new job and they want proof of reliability or something. Edit - wwerulez, you beat me to it.

said the one who can't get laid

owned

ya lol looks like you have no room to talk lmao

lmao!!!

Maybe their honeymoon had been booked before her fiancé got his new job?

in a house. with a mouse. here or there. anywhere.

I'm in love with #28... =]

that's normal :/