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Foreplay or not the first time sucks for the girl it's supposed to hurt and not as beautiful as it is in books or in movies it's kind of a disappointment

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That really sucks OP, especially that being your first time. If it helps, most first times are nothing to brag about! I agree more foreplay, the sex might be more enjoyable for you!

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Op may be unfortunate enough to have a small amount of nerve endings where it counts hence making things less pleasurable. Or her boyfriend needs to learn more about anatomy and stimulation. A larger probe helps too.

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Well I guess it's better to feel nothing than to feel a lot of pain. I know girls who said they were left bleeding and sore for a couple of days after their first time.

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agreed. more foreplay might help. but you could consider yourself lucky, OP. I hated m first time. It was so painful. I bled quite a bit, and was sore for days

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I'd say it depends. Not every girl is in pain, things are different when the guy takes time and actually knows what he's doing. With lots of care, love and all that I've listed above the first time can be truly beautiful, pleasurable and very memorable.

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#113 speaks the truth. I've heard horror stories of first times, but mine was perfect. No pain, incredible amounts of pleasure and lots of love and devotion. I think you just have to be very ready and not rush yourself or be impatient for your first time. It should be special!

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Usually you do it's painful but ops boyfriend might not be as endowed or he didn't give her his "all" so he wouldn't hurt her too much. Either way sorry op

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My first was so bad, it felt better putting a tampon in than having sex. He was v gentle though, may be why.

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Some 12 year olds know what sex feels like, does that mean they're old enough to comment on a thread about sex?

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I was 19 & in a serious relationship. Honestly, I don't remember the actual sex that much, but it remember how scared I was.

Maybe he will have more to "offer" with more experience. Sounds like you two need to just get more comfortable with each other on a physical level

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Nerves always get the best of everyone usually the first time. my nervousness got to me. It gets better the more you do it.

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Length actually doesn't matter all that much because the vagina only has pleasure receptors up to 4 inches deep (which is about avg penis size). What actually does make a difference is girth.

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