By Anonymous - 16/11/2014 00:04 - United States - Cleveland
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#1 F! the drunk excuse, you did it because you wanted to do. it. #2 Think about how you would feel if your fiance, told you she got drunk and screwed some dude. #3 If you are truly sorry forget it happened and put it in the past. #4. If you truly love the woman who will be your wife, think about your actions and the impact they can potentially have on her but before acting. If you are going going to be a horrible husband, do you both a favor and don't get hitched.
#60 The last thing he should do is keep it from his fiance. OP fucked up, and if he keeps it from her and they get married, they both are going to be in an even bigger hurt when she does find out (let's face it, if OP is dumb enough to get drunk and cheat, he's probably dumb enough to get drunk and spill the beans). It'd be better to tell her now OP before you drag her down with you.
83, if it really was a one time mistake and OP does really regret it and loves his future wife very much he should be the one living with the hurt and pain, not her. If my hubby made a one time mistake that really was a one time thing I wouldn't want to know. I wouldn't want to live with having to wonder if he would do it again every time he leaves home or comes home from work late. If it ever happened again, I would want to know. Because that would be the day I leave.
I love the double standard of society. A man gets drunk and has sex: "He shouldn't have drank! He must have wanted it! He's 100% responsible!" A woman gets drunk and has sex: "she was drunk! She didn't have control! Its 100% the guys fault!" Not saying cheating is good but these comments you guys are posting make me sick.
I would say that sucks, but you did have a one night stand while engaged. Ydi OP
Yeah, you should feel terrible. F your fiancé's life. She deserves better. Also, being drunk isn't an excuse.
A+ parenting. Hope the drunk one night stand was worth the shit storm that should be headed your way. YDI.
I hate when people being drunk becomes an excuse for pulling your manhood out. You should feel guilty OP, YDI.
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I don't think it's an excuse. More an explanation. His dad's a dock maybe he should go to his mom. There nothing harder than telling you other you cheated
As for advice... confess immediately and beg your fiance's forgiveness. Being dishonest about it will make it so much worse.