By Anonymous - Canada - Winnipeg
  Today, frustrated that my boyfriend never gives me any orgasms when we make love, I tried politely hinting that he needs to improve. To start with, I said maybe he should be more spontaneous in bed. He replied, "What, like putting it in your ass? Gotcha." Great. FML
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  DarksideDoll  |  31

Maybe beating around the bush wasn't the best approach.
Next time you're in the sack, give him a little guidance, & encouragement when he's doing something that'll get you there. :)

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  Dkman  |  11

I'll agree we don't do hints. But being cold won't either. How bout this, she tells him what she likes? That way he knows. And they both win.

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  katties  |  27

If there's ANY pain at all, you're doing it very very wrong - optimally, there shouldn't even be any discomfort. That's why you need to be able to trust the person doing anything like that to you, and you need to be sure about that he/she knows the theory, which means you need to know the theory too. And, of course, you need to be into it. Otherwise, you're kinda gambling on it.

By  SaucyGirl106  |  18

Don't hint. Some guys are bad with hints. and they're not mind readers. Try telling him exactly what turns you on and don't forget positive reinforcement when he does something that really gets you going.

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  katties  |  27

"Communication is the key" - agree. It sounds like OP is in this situation in the first place because she's not very good at communicating her wishes