Man up and ask her in real life!

thats about one of the worst places to tell her talk to her or at least text her

I never thought I'd see the day where someone says "at least send a text"

It's a forum, what did you expect? 99% of all forum mods of all subjects are incredibly butthurt.

And so they should be, have you ever been a mod? People can be really really abusive to you.

#1 I concur ...why on a forum? I think it should of been done privately ...especially it being such sensitive information.

Maybe OP is a stalker or a creep. I mean think about it, WHY would anyone do something like that?

It's far more likely that she misunderstood OP, and assumed that he was just messing with her. An online forum sounds like a horrible place to confess such a thing, with it being so easy to take such things out of context. (._.)

they might live far away - if they've never met it could be the only way OP could tell her

Dangit I was trying to edit this D:

My friendly advice to you: this commenting thing you're doing, it's not really working out, maybe you should take a break

Why are you getting thumbed down? This is true, she was abusing her power.

That depends on the forum rules. Maybe they weren't supposed to divulge personal info or say anything off topic from the site subject.

I don't think he posted it on a thread. Most likely he sent it to her in a PM.

He said he did on the forum she moderates.

You can send private messages on a lot of forums