By Anonymous - 28/09/2009 01:39 - United States
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ugh that's total bullshit. You should hang out with people that make you happy. Shame on your mom for being so rude and shallow.
Oh shit. That is a mean mommy. If I were you, I'd give her the 2 finger salute saying FUCK YOU. She should not be treating you like that. correct me if I'm wrong people, but aren't moms supposed to be encouraging towards their children?
no, they're supposed to do what's best for their children. That's why Asian kids have lived up to the stereotype that they always do better in school. American parent: "You're the best in the world, just do YOUR best and I'll be happy". American kids are therefore unmotivated early in life and are satisfied with mediocrity. By the time they realize that grades are important, it's too late. Asian parent: "There are kids better than you! You have to be number 1 if you want to get anywhere in life". Depending on which type of Asian parent of you have, the second part can go one of two ways: 1. "You're doing okay, but you'll have to step it up if you want to make it to Harvard" 2. "YOU SUCK! WHY ARE YOUR GRADES SO LOW?!?! WHEN I WAS A KID, I DIDN'T HAVE ANY ONLINE TEXTBOOK AND I SCORED 105'S! WHAT IS THIS 99??? AT THIS RATE, YOU'LL BE STUCK AT DUKE WHILE EVERYONE AROUND YOU IS GOING IVY!" I think this mom actually knows what's what.
Why did you separate Asian and American? Lol. There are Asian-Americans. "Asian parent: "There are kids better than you! You have to be number 1 if you want to get anywhere in life". Depending on which type of Asian parent of you have, the second part can go one of two ways: 1. "You're doing okay, but you'll have to step it up if you want to make it to Harvard"" -QFT. The 2nd part is exaggerated, though. I'm Asian-American and my parents (and other Asian parents) don't overreact on a 99. Anyway, back on topic, you are different in everyone's eyes. You can be beautiful in many eyes. Don't take your mother's words to heart, although I know it's hard. The best thing to do is, as someone already mentioned, ignore until you're in college. Or as another person mentioned, thank her for your appearance. After all, you have her genes.
What she doesn't realize is that you are hanging out with hot girls for a good reason. Looks like you won't miss guys after all. . . :)
Once again, Intoxicunt with the correct idea. We all know the OP be hangin out with the attractive girls so that she can in turn, hang out with their attractive guy friends. Then the OP just has to work on getting one of them wasted so she can jump his bones while hes too fucked up to even care what she lookes like! OP, you go girl.
I would be so angry! My mum isn't like that at all, never has been so I don't know how you feel, really. But still! How rude of your mother to speak to her child like that! Forgive me for saying, but your mom sounds like a bitch-face whore! :D I hate mums that are so inconsiderate and hurtful! :(
Your mom is 100% right. Even the hottest girls are terribly insecure. They love to surround themselves with uglies to make themselves feel better. Don't let yourself be the token ugly girl that the wingman has to "take for the team." Get uglier friends.
haha I must be hanging out with hot girls too, no boyfriend yet! XD