wow well put.

Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on me...

I think this FML counts as both an FYL and a YDI.

Much agreed. I'm honestly in the same predicament as OP. My girlfriend cheated on me, but I'm willing to give her a second chance and everything is going good so far (aren't dating yet). That does suck though OP, you can find much better. Chins up!

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#1 - You put it perfectly. This sucks OP, but consider it a life lesson.

Ignore my last post. As of right now, not so good. So more of my sympathy goes to OP.

Not him

No shit Sherlock

Couldn't you have saved this for the later pages? I'm tired of your obvious ass comments.

It's obvious but why did it get so many dislikes

That's not enough, she needs to feel pain. I hate cheating bastards!

I have a serious amount of respect for him for forgiving her the first time. I couldn't do it. But F his life for her taking advantage of him.

#142 - He shouldn't have forgiven her, cheaters usually always cheat again. (Not always).

I agree that he shouldn't have. But I still have the respect for him that he was able to

I don't think it's always a case of 'playing with fire'. If they genuinely feel bad about it/won't do it again then it's just a case of trust and strength within the relationship to move forward from it. The one who got cheated on needs to evaluate the situation and decide if it's worth the 'risk' to stay with them. Having said this, I was cheated on, I took him back, and then over a year later he left me, so I guess I'm not the best person to give advice on this! I just think that, with some relationships anyway, you don't have to immediately dump them.

I kind of learned that is they cheat once, they can easily cheat again.

A family friend of mine dated a man who cheated on her a couple times in college. But she knew she wanted him, and now they're happily married with two kids. While this case probably isn't common, it is possible.

My husband cheated on me some five years ago. He never has again, and we are still together. Definitely depends on the cheater, and how willing to forgive them you are. Though in this case she's a horrible person and deserves the karma coming to her for deliberately abusing OP's trust.

In my opinion, if they TRULY cared about you they never would've cheated in the first place. They can apologize all they want but I won't believe it. They obviously weren't thinking of me when they cheated, so why should I believe they suddenly care now?

Fool me once shame on you, fool me twice.... ALSO "can't turn a ho into a housewife." Yeah sorry OP, that's on you buddy.

Not so my dad cheated on my mother before I was born and she forgave him. He never cheated again oh and he got the other woman pregnant

*never got caught cheating again. Fixed that for you. Slightly jaded viewpoint I know but in all likelihood it's an honest one.

If the person honestly feels bad for what they, they will change. Yes, there are quite a few that are so heartless they continue to do it but there the ones that have regret and do change.

Or we act like grown-ups and not punch anyone. There's a mature way to handle this. Physical violence isn't it.

I hope for your sake your future spouse doesn't see this

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**** punt

#9, feminism is not punching anyone, because nobody deserves physical violence and there are better ways to handle a situation than to violently lash out.

Do you always have to comment on every single post

Does it bother you that much? Maybe he enjoys commenting.

#60 Yes,yes I do is it annoying you?....Good