By lovegame - Singapore - Singapore

Makes sense

Today, two months after forgiving my girlfriend for breaking my heart by cheating on me, I found out that she's cheating again with the same guy. When I confronted her, she basically said I brought it on myself and that I was an idiot for not dumping her the first time. FML
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  lnheritance  |  19

Much agreed. I'm honestly in the same predicament as OP. My girlfriend cheated on me, but I'm willing to give her a second chance and everything is going good so far (aren't dating yet). That does suck though OP, you can find much better. Chins up!

  renjisgirl12  |  22

I don't think it's always a case of 'playing with fire'. If they genuinely feel bad about it/won't do it again then it's just a case of trust and strength within the relationship to move forward from it. The one who got cheated on needs to evaluate the situation and decide if it's worth the 'risk' to stay with them. Having said this, I was cheated on, I took him back, and then over a year later he left me, so I guess I'm not the best person to give advice on this! I just think that, with some relationships anyway, you don't have to immediately dump them.


A family friend of mine dated a man who cheated on her a couple times in college. But she knew she wanted him, and now they're happily married with two kids. While this case probably isn't common, it is possible.

  RowanSpirit  |  9

My husband cheated on me some five years ago. He never has again, and we are still together.

Definitely depends on the cheater, and how willing to forgive them you are. Though in this case she's a horrible person and deserves the karma coming to her for deliberately abusing OP's trust.

  teentee401  |  36

In my opinion, if they TRULY cared about you they never would've cheated in the first place. They can apologize all they want but I won't believe it. They obviously weren't thinking of me when they cheated, so why should I believe they suddenly care now?

  xivoricbutterfly  |  25

Not so my dad cheated on my mother before I was born and she forgave him. He never cheated again oh and he got the other woman pregnant

  amayasoma  |  19

If the person honestly feels bad for what they, they will change.

Yes, there are quite a few that are so heartless they continue to do it but there the ones that have regret and do change.