Don't get it

By Anonymous - 09/05/2015 19:17 - United States - Bristol

Today, my fiancée called off our wedding at the last moment, because her neurotic sister thinks she's "too fat" to be the maid of honor, and says she needs several months to lose weight. So that's a few thousand dollars wasted. My fiancée says I'm "overreacting" and that I "just don't get it". FML
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This is a sign. Run now while you can.

Ask your fiancée why she didn't just tell her sister she looked great and that she wasn't fat instead of non verbally agreeing with her sisters thought by giving her time to lose weight.

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Let her flip the amount lost

Iwannarock1 19

run away fast!

She sounds somewhat crazy... Her sister as well... looks like you are marrying into crazy. Good luck with that.

Take it as an omen and dance your way to freedom.

i think she's not ready for this big step yet ! and it's just pretext to hav more time to think about that !!

Maybe she shouldn't be the maid of honor after all.

anonymous100000 17

I'm female and I think your fiancee is a dumb bitch. warning, if she does this now, she'll do it in the future

I'm sure you love her, but you really need to have some basic rules about what doesn't make sense in a relationship and the fact that you need to come first (now that you are vowing to spend the rest of your lives together, and all).

Ask your fiancée why she didn't just tell her sister she looked great and that she wasn't fat instead of non verbally agreeing with her sisters thought by giving her time to lose weight.

iLike2Teabag 27

I feel like asking that question will only lead to OP permanently moving into the doghouse.

I think this sounds like cold feet and she used her sister as a way out. Her sister might have felt self conscious. But that is no excuse to not marry someone.

I'm pretty sure she would have tried that before calling off her entire wedding last minute for one person. unless she got cold feet or something and was looking for an excuse to stall/get out of it. but that'd be a different issue entirely

Wow that's fucked up. I sense financial troubles in the future.

Your fiancee and her sister have issues and are willing to allow those issues to significantly affect others. Think about what other issues could occur in the future before committing to planning another wedding. Personally, I'd run far from this crazy family.

Yeah definitely. She chose her sister's vanity over OP. That shows just how important OP is to her. End it now, spare the pain in the future.

You sure it's not an excuse to not marry you?

hmm... that does make sense.

That sounds like the beginning of a bad joke. That sucks op. Good luck with that

This is a sign. Run now while you can.

Normally I'd try to find a better solution, but this case is particularly a little bit more unique in terms of stupidity; therefore running is the best solution here. Good luck, OP.

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Don't ever try to understand girls. Most of the time we don't even know why we do things.