By Peterrulesall - 25/09/2020 17:01 - United States
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This is something you really can’t joke about for any reason. Not only does it shock people in a bad way, it is hurtful to those with fertility issues, and people who have lost their babies. 1 in 4 pregnancies end in miscarriage, it’s very common. Seeing sonograms pics is triggering.
Stop shoving your personal issues down other people's throats. I struggle with infertility and you won't find me telling people they can't post their sonogram pictures and live THEIR LIVES just because it hurts my feelings to see something like that. Even if it brings me to tears it is NOT my place to feel entitled enough to tell people they can't bask in their own happiness. If you are struggling with certain emotions (and I know how bad it gets) YOU find a way to cope with YOUR situation. It's not other people's cross to bear. Stop trying to make it so. It's not right. People are not meant to live on eggshells for you.
TBF, if you both are into silly pranks like that, I wouldn't understand her hating you. If she's in college her mother can't do shit, and if you've tried to explain it was a failed prank and say there wasn't anything bad meant by it and they were still mad depending on their family history could be reasonable or not for them being upset but hate seems a little strong is all.