By I'm_Not_Interested - 06/07/2015 05:30 - United States - Reno
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What's sad is every girl has experienced this, felt used and worthless afterwards, and had to deal with the angry after blow from some sexually frustrated man-child. Then that jerk has the nerve to complain about a 'friendzone' like we owe them our body because they treated us like an actual human for a few months. Guys like this give men a bad rep smh
43, if many guys you know feel entitled to sex, then you're hanging out with the wrong people. 44, many girls are also manipulative and use men. the fact of the matter is, guys tend to like girls right away and treat them with extra attention, hoping to sway their feelings, girls tend to go after the alphas, or they stay hush hush. or at least Thats what I think, because honestly I have no idea how it works XP
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Or because you are friends with douchebags? Just because someone is 17-25 doesn't mean anything, to me it means you're old enough to understand how to be good to others and respect people. "sex drive" is not an excuse at all for anyone with half a brain and self control. And no, "most" girls are not saints. Guys can be shitty but girls are equally as shitty. Girls can easily be more confusing than guys too. They go out when they can with basically no pants and much cleavage and wonder why a guy has sex on his mind? I'm not saying don't wear what you want, but you have to have some awareness and be prepared to be honest with someone who seems to want something from you and openly say "im not interested", maybe in different words. Everyone has shit communication and just lets mixed signals be a thing until someone makes a mistake and then the people involved never speak again. "every girl has experienced this" tells me maybe you all need to get a little more awareness about the people around you. "Girls go for guys who respect them" yeah what a load of crap that is eh
Popularity is based upon a mix of social and antisocial behaviors plus attractiveness. So yes, girls do like a bit of "alpha" in their man, because confidence is social and aggression is antisocial, but to put it simply, there are many other combinations of traits that can give the same effect. For example, being nice is social and being shy is antisocial.
Girls go with guys who show confidence that has nothing to do with woman going with guys who show them respect some go with guys who treat them like shit because they want someone they see as better then them. i have also seen so many woman use guys who are attracted to them to ether get free stuff or get free labor
Wow, why do people think it's that simple to have sex these days.
It's actually much simpler to have sex than what this guy is making it out to be. For instance, he could be honest with a girl about wanting sex instead of pretending to be her friend and hoping she ends up having sex with him despite not knowing that's his intention, and despite not knowing if this long con will work.
Hmmm some guys are that silly to think they could get the cookie just like that. I hope you held your own and told him to be nice to someone else. You deserve a good friend without such weird intentions.
Ha, bet he's been whining about being in the friendzone all that time! His fault for not growing up and asking you out the proper way.