Went a bit too far, Sigmund

By notatherapist - 01/10/2014 23:08 - Netherlands - Huizen

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Today, my boyfriend and I were roleplaying therapist and patient in bed. When I playfully asked him what bothered him, he told me his mother hates him and burst into tears. FML
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I see this as actually a good thing. He's obviously been holding this in. And guys tend to have a hard time talking about tough subjects. Of course, it ruined the mood, but there's always next time :)

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I think you should've been the patient

Abort mission!!!

I don't know what's so turn onish about therapists though...

A lot of people have that fantasy. I work in a crisis center and I can't tell you how many people are sexually inappropriate with their counselor/therapist. It's the same idea as teacher/student, doctor/patient. One is in power and providing care for the other.

I see this as actually a good thing. He's obviously been holding this in. And guys tend to have a hard time talking about tough subjects. Of course, it ruined the mood, but there's always next time :)

That's deep.

Bottled up emotions are like a bomb about to go off. The kind of bomb that makes a ticking noise as it's counting down till the explosion. That random outburst is just a tick. Now that you know it's there, defuse the bomb. Try and help him with this, before it starts spilling out during a family reunion.

^ THAT was deep. Perfect description.

2 and 11 hit the nail on the head. OP you should also be happy because it takes a lot of trust to confide that to someone, even if the circumstance is admittedly unusual (and hilarious). A lot of relationships never get to that level of intimacy.

What's this? Adults commenting in FML? What is this site turning into?! Don't know, but I like it!

The Pacific Ocean.

That IS deep

The kiddie pool is pretty deep too *blows up floatations devise* *puts on sunglasses* But I'm ready for it.

Yeah, sex can wait.

Aww, hope you made him feel better.

At least he didn't say that his mom hates you!

Actually I think this is quite a bit worse considering it's his own mother instead of it being just her boyfriends mother that she surely wouldn't have to hard a time avoiding

This is important to know.

Well, next time switch the roles.

Or change therapist to doctor ;)

Definitely switch to Doctor. I feel like they were just asking for something like this to happen playing therapist/client.

maybe that was part of his role?

Yah i am sure that's it! i have heard that crying is quite a panty peeler.

21, it used to be...

And that part of a relationship where you're there for more than fun, and happiness comes in. He's your boyfriend, and he needs someone to talk to. Guys feel too! And for it to come up during roll play shows that this has probably been weighing on him for a while.

I guess your not roleplaying anymore.

What about his not roleplaying anymore?

Her* If you're going to be that guy, which I don't disapprove of, at least make sure you're correct yourself.

Well damn, that's embarrassing. I can't believe I ballsed that up.

Aww that's really sweet that he opened up to you. It is really hard for guys to open up and that's priceless compared to sex. :)

Sex is almost priceless though, right?

According to hookers and prostitution that would be false.