By notatherapist - 01/10/2014 23:08 - Netherlands - Huizen
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A lot of people have that fantasy. I work in a crisis center and I can't tell you how many people are sexually inappropriate with their counselor/therapist. It's the same idea as teacher/student, doctor/patient. One is in power and providing care for the other.
I see this as actually a good thing. He's obviously been holding this in. And guys tend to have a hard time talking about tough subjects. Of course, it ruined the mood, but there's always next time :)
Bottled up emotions are like a bomb about to go off. The kind of bomb that makes a ticking noise as it's counting down till the explosion. That random outburst is just a tick. Now that you know it's there, defuse the bomb. Try and help him with this, before it starts spilling out during a family reunion.
And that part of a relationship where you're there for more than fun, and happiness comes in. He's your boyfriend, and he needs someone to talk to. Guys feel too! And for it to come up during roll play shows that this has probably been weighing on him for a while.
Aww that's really sweet that he opened up to you. It is really hard for guys to open up and that's priceless compared to sex. :)