Today, my obsessive ex, who recently cut my phone line to stop me from talking to my boyfriend of three years, got a job at the same restaurant where both my boyfriend and I work. FML
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Dead leaves, the first cold of the season and an umbrella flipped inside out: fall, the season of grace.
Today, I found out my ex-boyfriend, who I thought was finally out of my life for good, is now dating my new manager. FML
Today, I found out my boss hired literally the only person in this town who is an ex-boyfriend. I also work with my current boyfriend. FML
Today, my psycho ex-girlfriend showed up at my new job to, "Keep an eye on me." The same ex-girlfriend who has been stalking me since we broke up. Two years ago. FML
Today, the girl my ex-boyfriend cheated on me with had a job interview at my place of work. If she gets the job, she'll be my manager. FML
Today, I found out that my three closest online friends are the same person: my obsessive ex. I met all three before he and I even started dating. FML
Today, I went for a job interview. I'd resigned at my current job and applied for somewhere closer to home. They hired me on the spot, and as I was leaving, I saw my abusive ex-boyfriend working in the store. So… now I'm working alongside my ex who abused me for two years. Time to apply elsewhere. FML
Today, my abusive ex-boyfriend yet again decided to eat at the restaurant I work at. It’s traumatizing to me, and I think that’s why he does it. FML
Today, I met my ex's new boyfriend. I was at work, cashiering at the movie theater that they were apparently having their first date at. We broke up less than 24 hours ago. FML
Today, I found out that my violent ex has moved to my country for the sole purpose of tracking me down. I know this because my former boss called and told me she gave him my address. She loves the idea of us getting back together because, "You're such a cute couple!" FML
Today, I was at dinner with my boyfriend. About 30 minutes into dinner and I see my exes come in, one by one. In the end, they were all sitting at the same table. My boyfriend got up and went to the bathroom. He came back and sat down with them. Apparently my boyfriend went through my phone and called all of them. FML
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RabbitOfAurora 28
A 'bit of paper' that will send his ass to jail if he violates it. good luck with prosecution OP; I hope all goes well and they hit him with that book hard!
that1guyyy 12
Phone line? Don't you have a cell phone or Skype? Oh and get a restraining order
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Comments (180)
SailorSolaris 43
That 'piece of paper' has a lot of power, OP. As a fellow girl, I applaud you for taking action. Probably should have done it sooner, though. Just a thought.
darkfireflame 15
Get a firearm OP and learn how to use it well.
supersitter 11
This is beyond the point where you call 911, and get a restraining order on his sorry stalker ass.
mkcherry 14
A restraining order doesn't stop him from coming near you and cops are notoriously resistant to enforce them. I resisted getting one for a long time because in order to get one Id have to inform the person where I lived and worked (after moving away) so he would know what places to avoid and that kind of defeats the purpose. I think all single women should apply for a concealed weapon permit but thats not really an option in the UK, which I guess is good because he cant get one either. Id let someone know where you are at all times (boyfriend, friend family member) and that they should be concerned if they cant reach you for extended periods of time. Tell your boss about the situation and be very careful getting to and from work. When you can get a new job, change your number, change your apartment if and when you can afford it. Its not fair but it just might save your life until he goes to jail. Consider getting a large dog (particularly found of German Sheppard's, pitbulls, dane mixes, giant Alaskan malamutes, and Rottweilers). Carry him in front of a judge every opportunity you get so you have documentation of his escalating and threatening behavior. This isn't a joke, I've personally held the hands of many women who think the problem is over just for the guy to suddenly come back extremely violent.
Artures_way1 23
Get a restriction order.
amp4942 12
I think its time for a restraining order.
Anony2014 10
I feel like this needs another follow-up. How are you doing, and were you able to get a restraining order?
Alexandria79 22
you need to tell your boss and get a restraining order. if he violates it then you call the cops. that bit of paper can send him to jail
thawny_fml 21
As someone who was once stabbed by a crazy obsessive ex, get yourself some mace and soak the barbs from a tazer in it. That should work
MidnightRaven963 21
Restraining orders are just pieces of paper, 0P. Make sure that you protect yourself, and be careful. Also make sure that your boyfriend is protecting himself as well. Set up cameras outside of your house to make sure there's no funny business, and if need be get yourself a weapon. This guy sounds like he's absolutely crazy, and I'm so sorry. But seriously, do whatever you need to do to protect yourself. A restraining order will help you, but it will help you in a situation where he's out to hurt you.