Restraining order time

By Anonymous - 02/04/2022 16:00

Today, my abusive ex-boyfriend yet again decided to eat at the restaurant I work at. It’s traumatizing to me, and I think that’s why he does it. FML
I agree, your life sucks 1 194
You deserved it 127

Same thing different taste

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yahok 3

Dude, your comments are getting more and more cruel. I used to think you were some what funny. Now I just think your a person who hides behind a phone screen. She was abused. Your comment isn’t funny.

Jon Tessler 14

go to the magistrate and get a protective order against him. that way when he comes in to eat, you can call the cops and have him arrested for violating it.

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You can ask your manager to refuse to serve him. Also, get over yourself. Maybe he likes the food.

yahok 3

Dude, your comments are getting more and more cruel. I used to think you were some what funny. Now I just think your a person who hides behind a phone screen. She was abused. Your comment isn’t funny.

Jon Tessler 14

go to the magistrate and get a protective order against him. that way when he comes in to eat, you can call the cops and have him arrested for violating it.

yahok 3

I’m so sorry, I know that can be scary and triggering. As hard as it may be especially with abuse you need to protect yourself. Tell your manager and get a restraining order.

Time to speak to your management and see if you can get him 86'd from that location and others you work at (if you travel or transfer). If they don't want to because there is no legal binding contract, contact your police department and they can help you file a restraining order for your safety that your management cannot refuse or you can create a lawsuit for them not upstanding a court ordered document

Ask the chefs to serve him "special" food. If they won't, serve him with a smirk, and then start laughing when he eats it.

talk to your manager. your ex can be banned. my place of work did that for me once. abuse is a serious issue and traumatizing. also don't listen to Richard pencil. he is an idiot/ass/ dick.