By virginmary - 06/12/2009 08:07 - United States
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Well, I'm a 23 year old virgin. I don't think there's anything wrong with it. :)
I don't think the OP is lacking in self respect, it's understandable that she might get the impression that there might be something wrong with being a 21 year old virgin if we live in a world where her own mother finds the very idea of her being 21 year virgin inconceivable.
okay im pretty sure her own mother wouldnt just yell out randomly that she will get pregnant the OP must have a record of some sort of behaviour that led her mother to make such a wild assumption. She probably a) hangs out with sketchy friends b) dresses like a whore and c) has been caught drinking/getting high (before she was 21)
there's nothing wrong with being a virgin, seriously. you'll be glad you kept it when you meet the special one for you(:
OH MY GOD, woe is you! You've only lived two decades and you're such a dried up old hag! [/sarcasm] I didn't lose my virginity until I was almost 20, and most girls in my pathetic little town were "well experienced" by age 17. Get over it. Being a virgin isn't anything to be ashamed of. If you haven't found the right partner, there's no reason you should go around having sex when you're not ready. FYL because you have really fucked-up priorities in life. Worry about your education or job, ways to get by in life so you can be successful later on. Unless your dream job involves prostitution, you shouldn't be so preoccupied with when your ankles finally go up and around your neck.
There is a word for your mother and it rhymes with 'ditch'. If you still live with her I think it's time to move out.
I lost my virginity when I was about 17...but for a guy thats expected. Something I read online went..."A key that opens a lot of locks is a master key, a lock that opens to a lot of keys is a shitty lock." I guess that makes you a Master Lock. Kudo's Op...You'll be a good wifey someday.
You guys are assuming that all guys are taken at all times. One slutty girl can easily take many guys virginity. She'll just get around alot. Let's say that Bob, Joey, Steve, and Susan all go to the same school. Bob and Susan go out for a month and decide to have sex. It is the first time for both of them. They brake up and Susan goes out with Joey next. She has already lost her virginity and is more eager this time. They go out for two weeks and have sex. They brake up and Susan goes out with Steve next. They go out for a week and Susan has sex with Steve. then they brake up. The point to my little story? Susan is horrible in bed. Also, girls who have done it before are more eager for sex, and guys will generally not turn them down, whereas, girls will decline their boys and the guys will still stick with them... for a while atleast.
Totally agree. I'm 22 and a virgin as well. I have loads of friends and have a great social life, I just don't see the point in having sex with just anyone so I can tell others I've done it. I'd rather be a virgin than do it with people I don't have feelings for. Good for you, and just ignore your mom.