Try not to worry about it, OP. Everyone has that one family member. My dad has a sister, Katie, who is just like that. She sent him an e-mail once about a book he borrowed and lost 30 years prior and how it emotionally devastated her and ow he is a horrible person, etc. etc. The last time he visited her home state, she sent one of her daughters to explain the rules of engagement: If my dad sees Katie, he will not go over and say hi. If they see her across the street, they will not cross the street. If they see her eating out, they will not bother her, etc. She's just a drama queen. Every family has one!

Well that means more $ for the other kids in the will. o/

Good riddance to bad (illogical) rubbish....

With behavior like that, let's hope she never has children.