By adopteddd - 28/06/2011 14:30 - United Kingdom
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well if the wife cheated on him and another man impregnated her, that would obv mean that op wasn't her dad's real daughter, yet he still cared for her as if she were his real daughter, just the way adoption works. so in a sense it is like her dad adopted her without knowing, and maybe the reason he just told her was because he just found out himself.
another possibility is that the mom was impregnated by the dad and the fetus/baby died in the 2nd term and so, already having a bigger " belly", she did not inform the husband and instead arranged for an adoption of which only she partook which was finalized around the date that the doctors were able to safely remove the dead child from her womb, and she just brought it home instead. depending on the dad's job, it is possible that he would have been unable to go to the dr appointments and the wife could have requested that the hospital tell the father nothing. she still had a "birth" even if the baby was deceased and the father may have been squeamish and not looked if he was there, or she could have asked him to leave. deception is easy. and the father could have adopted the child at the hospital unknowingly because there is paperwork to fill out and he may have just not thought to read them, because the wife already had filled it out or he trusted her, etc. some people just don't pay much attention and don't notice things. honestly it's not a fyl or a ydi, how could you deserve it? and if they love you and you love them, it shouldn't affect your relationship. sure it's an omg... really...? exasperation thing but just shake your head and live on.. nothings really changed
ok maybe he just panicked... there was probly a reason why he had never told you
Father was away (work, military, etc) when (still)birth happened, mum adopted without saying anything to dad. Otherwise I am at a loss to see how this is possible.
WTF???? how dont you know if ur child is adopted???? I'm sorry but that's a failure
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