Just break the ice and go up to them and ask them : " Mom, dad... i have a question... Am i adopted?" Boom. They'll have to answer .

Isn't that something you'd do together as parents?

So who won the argument?

Just know, that you were a chosen child. Adoption is not an ​accident or a mistake. That means that while they don't know how to tell you, they love you so very much.

Just know, that you were a chosen child. Adoption is not an ​accident or a mistake. That means that while they don't know how to tell you, they love you so very much.

Because it's not something they maybe should do together?

Just tell them good job. They both told you.

Turn the tables and tell them they're adopted parents.