Moving in with someone is a huge commitment and not to be undertaken unless you feel completely right and ready for it. "Sex and pizza" are immature reasons to jump into a major life decision OP... the fact that you don't really respect his decision to wait is a bit telling.

honestly if you have to bribe your boyfriend to live with you, then your relationship is not ready for the big step. When it comes to things like marriage or moving in, if a guy wants to he will. And also sex should not be a reward for good behavior or a punishment for bad behavior. I know it's hard to believe because what culture says but not all guys are ruled by erections. some of us actually use our brains and emotions to make the decisions that are right for us. maybe you should have a discussion on the relationship and see if you are in the same place. as usual honesty and direct communication will save the day

here's a thought no one bothered to share yet. maybe he's been there before and got burned. as much as I love my boyfriend, he's not moving in with me any time soon. and I mean YEARS.

He must be gay

lol yeah for the first week maybe - think he was being long term realistic!

Okay I know I'm jumping to conclusions and shouldn't judge a book by its cover but he kinda sounds like a deadbeat to me.

Smart man. Women are more hassle than their worth most of the time. Also, I can almost guarantee the relationship and/or move WAS NOT described as "lots of sex and pizza".

Well yah what's the point if he has to listen to you nag him while he's playing games eating pizza and having sex.... it's just better off living alone

i would choose b :) What a stupid

Is option B still valid?