By dumpedovergame - 06/07/2009 10:51 - United States
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I used to play WoW and i think there is a point where a person can play it to much but i dont think you should make him choose between you and a video game because being a gamer id probably choose the game every single time because with a video game theres less drama, less emotion damage, there are no fights its pure entertainment just talk to him dont act on impulse and make him choose
WTF, then rather let him lose you. But yes, perhaps he needs a bang to understand what he is losing out on, that female troll he follows around is just another guy not getting laid
to make this a little easier to understand picture a crack addict and give him a choice: crack every day whenever he wants it or the possibility of having sex once or twice a week with you, that is if you aren't tired, don't have a headache or just aren't in the mood. now does his choice seem to make more sense? also any lonely guy can jerk off but an obsession or an addiction is something for which there is no substitute. you deserved what you got and you're a selfish person for pushing that point.
i agree and I am a girl. I'm not saying all girls do this, and not saying they don't. It's not like guys don't either, we are all people, but Making someone choose between what they like and want isn't really good for either. They probably wouldn't be a good couple, idk how they lasted for 5 years, sorry.
Maybe he was constantly playing Wow. Maybe she didn't mean to give up Wow completely, just cut back and spend more time with her. I kind of know how she feels, I had a boyfriend choose weed over me. I never actually said "Choose one" but I'd ask him if we wanted to hang out alone (which we almost never got a chance to do) and he'd always choose to smoke up with his friends. I tried to talk to him several times but he never tried to make things work, so I dumped him.
The truth is, none of us could really know all the details of what is really going on with their relationship, but being an ex WoW addict I know damn well what's going on. I lost my girlfriend and a step-son because of my addiction to World of Warcraft. In the beginning of the relationship we were insanely in love with eachother, went out all the time, we were in shape, the sex was amazing, did it almost every day, morning and night. (so its not like there was a lack of sex that was the cause) Mid way through the relationship she got a hospital job and became a work-ahololic, and I got back into the game I had quit when we had started dating. It only led to me getting super addicted. The lack of sleep from both sides and always getting wakened up early from her son led to a lot of fights, and I let her move out because in my screwed up head I thought: "ok good now i have more time for WoW". That's some f*cked up sh*t right there. I didn't snap out of it until a few weeks later and after a year of asking for forgiveness and trying to get back with her, she still won't forgive me. A lot of people don't realize this game sucks the life out of you. I've heard a ton of stories where WoW ruins a lot of lives. I could write a book about this crap but I'll keep it relatively short.
Ok, 1) no where in the story did it say he ignored her for WOW. 2) not every person who plays WOW is completey obsessed with the game it might just be something he enjoys playing etc. 3) who the hell are you to call everyone an A-hole when it seems like you yourself play these types of games if you know what a MMORPG is. nuff said
If it's to the point where she has to give him an ultimatum to pick between her or the game (whether it was the right thing to do or not), then he's been playing the game too much. She doesn't have to mention that she's being ignored, that part should be obvious. Then again maybe he only plays an hour a day (which I seriously doubt) and she's super needy and clingy... but who knows. FML
The main reason is that you're an idiot just like most Wow addicts. I play every night for about 2 hours. Usually my girlfriend is asleep and the house is quiet. Now if you come home from your job and jump on Wow and play it every fricken second you need to quit. Everything in life needs moderation.
No where did it say that he ignored her. Maybe she was just embaressed(sp?) that her bf played WoW. you don't know that he ignored her so stfu. but OP, you deserve it for trying to make him quit for you. selfish. I could understand if you asked him to not play it as much and to spend more time with you, if ignoring was the issue, but to just try to make him give it up, YDI
Never give guys ultimatums. It just makes us resent you, and chances are, if we like something enough that u feel u need to give an ultimatum, ur gonna lose
you should have tried talking to him about how it made you feel rather than forcing him to chose one or the other.
My boyfriend is really hot and plays WoW, but he knows how to balance his time. I just tell him if I'd like to hang out and it usually works out. This girl must've had either a super obsessed boyfriend or she just doesn't like WoW. If it was the latter than fuck her. She should get over it. If not then she's better off without him.