By bubblegum92 - 29/06/2013 08:02 - Australia - Perth
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sorry OP, hes not ready for marriage, he misses his ex after all that time, and really he's 21! that's too young. I was married at 23, we were highschool sweethearts (still married at 32) but damn was it so very hard and their is always the fear of would he have still chosen me after he grew up (and it takes til like 30 for most, not all, but most men to grow up) I might not advise you to call it off, that's up to you but, I would strongly advise waiting a few more years (if its meant to be, that time won't change your love) 25 is a good age, not too old but not too young.
I've never understood that. I mean it doesn't really seem that alcohol is some magical truth serum. Yes, it can low inhibitions, which can lead to some things being said that are true, but would not say sober for reasons. However, people can still lie and be manipulative with alcohol in their veins. It may not be the case in this FML, but it's something to remember in real life.
A drunken man's words are a sober man's thoughts. Just move on...
This is probably what he's been actually thinking when he was sober. You need to talk to him and find out if he still does have feelings for his ex. If he does, then you need to move in