That's just about the worst thing you can do to a man. Fuck u for encouraging that behavior

I completely fucking agree.it was a mistake what yall are intending to do is abuse and intentional. so go to hell

Not necessarily. It got packed up the bung hole and the fear of it hurting like hell probably isn't helping. The 1st bowel movement after that is pretty painful and uncomfortable. Real talk.

Or like it was for a friend of mine and uncontrollable... She had straight liquid for a few days after her first time.

she's very anal about the situation

Yes it is if it was unwanted. it doesn't matter if they were in the middle of sex, if the partner isn't game, it's a no.

Also what I was thinking. The " " makes it sound like it wasn't an accident, that she had said she wasn't okay with anal and he did it anyways. Not consenting to a sex act and having someone do it to you anyways sounds pretty rapey to me.

It doesn't sound like he just pulled out to far and poked the wrong hole once. Sounds like he pushed all the way in, and kept going despite OP not wanting it. Briefly would be an accident, but to keep going is not an accident.

Idk if you meant it the way I read it but hahahahaha OMG that's hilarious