By Anonymous - 02/02/2013 23:03 - Belgium - Schepdaal
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If it was me in this situation I would have no idea what to do after being slapped. I would be to confused. Lol.
Actually, while slapping the girl back may not be socially acceptable, it is legally acceptable in any and all cases to hit/slap/kick/shove/whatever someone back with the same force. This is not to say, for example, if a girl slaps a big guy with all her strength the big guy can slap her back with all of HIS strength, because that would be awfully disproportionate. Basically, he can cause the same amount of pain to her as she did to him. This also applies to the reverse kind of situation; if a fat guy lightly shoves a skinny guy enough to make him stumble a bit, the skinny guy is legally allowed to use significantly more force shoving the fat guy to make HIM stumble a bit. Get it? Not saying legally acceptable is what you meant, but just thought you'd be interested to know :)
Actually, I'm afraid none if what you just said is true. The law protects those who act in self-defense. That is, when someone uses REASONABLE force to prevent further harm. What is considered reasonable depends on the situation. Is does not, however, allow for one to hit someone back simply to prove a point. He could be charged with assault for slapping her back, if it could be shown that it was not necessary to protect himself, which would likely be the case.
Why, because you're a big tough guy? I'm sorry, but if you're that weak, to where you can't control a girl that slaps you in the face, you're a pathetic excuse for a man. It's one thing if she's swinging an ax around or acting completely homicidal, but to strike a woman, simply because she confronts you "like a man" is disgusting.
I hate when people say that women get away with hitting a guy. They won't get away with it, if you report it. Also, 126, you are completely and totally wrong. If a girl walks up to a guy and smacks him in the face, he is not legally allowed to smack her back. If he did, they would both be charged with assault, if in fact, it were to be reported.
As I said, 169, I was taught self-defense here in Australia in highschool, and the ladies actually demonstrated the example I gave (one of the ladies was kinda fat and she nudged a girl a bit and got her to push her back enough for her to stumble a little too). We were explained such a law existed here, but we were also told that in most cases it was best to just get away from the situation and report it, because retaliating could make things a lot worse, even if it's not illegal.
Are you serious, 168? I actually don't see why you would say that. I stand for gender equality, and if I saw someone hit another person just because they were hit first, I would think of them as kindergarten children, both of them. No one should go after the "an eye for an eye" motto, either man or woman. I don't get why when a girl gets hit by a boy, the girl's a victim and the guy is 'a pathetic excuse for a man', as you put it, but when a girl hit a boy, he probably deserves it and should suck it up. Haven't we come far enough in equal rights that we can agree on that no one should hit anyone if not in self-defense. I tried to put this in a reasonable way, and don't show to much of the anger I felt reading this comment, but I just don't like that people like 168 degrade us women by saying things like that, if we can slap guys without anyone bating an eye, then haven't they the same right to slap us?
Not necessarily, #5. I accidentally stepped on a lady's foot on the dance floor in 1977 and she hauled off and hit me with the hardest left hook I ever felt to the lower abdomen and then knocked my ass out with, what I'm told was a beautiful right haymaker that would have made Sugar Ray Leonard proud. When I woke up in the hospital three days later, she was there to apologize. We have been together every day of our lives since then. Going on 36 years now and we've never had a cross word to each other. But I've been scheming on something for revenge so stay tuned.…
Excuse the hell out of me, SS. Didn't know I was ruining your day. Couldn't you have said what you wanted to say without being an asshole to someone that did nothing to you personally? But since you can hide behind your safe little computer screen, you don't have to be responsible for the way you talk, do you? After seeing the way so many people treat others with zero or little provocation any more makes really wish summertime would hurry up and get here. If that confuses you, 141, just read my profile.
Bitches be like...BUT I LOVE HIM!!!!
Just leave her.