By Mel Ancholy - United States
Today, I was talking to my husband about a work colleague, whose boyfriend is always sending her flowers and fawning over her. I mentioned how I've never been treated like that. He glanced up from his video game and said, "Shit, Mel. Get a boob job then." FML
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  PlaySpades  |  21

Not really....

  TomHarrow  |  5

4. actually it would be. divorce is only 800. and no one (maybe sometimes) pays for their own wedding. I'm only guessing, but a boob job has got to be in the high thousands.


That's like him coming home and saying his coworker got a boob job and it looks tremendous(hint hint). Probably should have brought it up in a different way than making a comparison.

  capper44  |  18

#21 why its bad reply, OP did complain about him and so did he.... If she married that guy then should have tried to understand his way of love lol

  nerdlyfe101  |  4

You deserve it for comparing your husbands relationship with someone else's..
You fell in love with your husband for a reason .
He doesn't need to hear why other man are
Better than him.
And you don't need to tell him either . Every individual is different in there own aspects. Some are more romantic than others.
A lot of fights are caused because of couples fighting over what other couples have and what your relationship doesn't have .
And it's completely senseless ..

  Bobissmall  |  13

I agree 177, she deserves it for saying how she'd never been treated like that while in his ear shot.

Obviously you were trying to hint something to him OP, maybe next time you should be more direct, instead of talking about him behind his back.

  SecretMe00  |  5

What OP didn't mention was whether or not she complains about not being able to get a boob job... So she could of just turned this around and put it on her husband(which is bitchy).

  MCweSCRAPPY  |  2

He's a dick for saying what he said, but it's also pretty bitchy to just walk up to your husband and say "You don't treat me like I deserve to be treated."

  teameminem  |  2

I could see both sides of this FML.
Of course the husband is a douche for saying what he said, but comparing your husband to another guy isn't the nicest thing to do either. Maybe at the beginning of their relationship the guy treated her like gold and he felt insulted when she told him he's never treated her like that. It's not OP's fault that she doesn't have the boobs her husband wants, but it's not the husbands job to always give her what she wants either.

  Marcelb  |  17

In fact, smaller breasted women should actually be treated better, as they have to deal with bigger breasted women getting what they want more easily. That must be frustrating. :)

  maronofhearts  |  19

Maybe what 9 should have said is you want something so do I so why can't they compromise. She's never been treated as great as her friend and he's never had a wife with big boobs?
Like others have said its a bitch move to compare your relationship to someone else's like that and she should've expected a negative response for the way she insinuated he doesn't treat her good enough. Who knows what he did when they were dating to get her to marry him.
Why is her request valid and his not they both went about it the wrong way

By  ambamm135  |  7

That is mean, but maybe you brought it up in a way that made him feel like you were attacking him and not trying to have a discussion. Or your husband is an ass, either way it was a low blow

  BloodMonger13  |  9

#8 actually I think it's cheaper then going threw a devorce when my parents got devorced it cost alot close to 200 thousand because of the lawyers and the house was and the devorce papers cost close to $1000 the custody of the children hired nannys to take care of my lil sister because my mom and dad both work... so ya I'm not going to go into further details about it but ya...

  kei1108  |  13

37 - Anyone who values a person's body over anything else is awful.
Don't think that calling someone a feminist is an insult. Do you believe that both genders should have equal rights? Yes? Then you're a feminist. That's all there is to it. No man-hating!! That's reverse feminism.

  THE_A_TEEN  |  27

Well #84, I thought #12 wasn't going after those in commited relationships.

...and yes, I do support in EQUAL rights. Not the "lets sympatize with the women and go after the men" bullshit.

  Enzi_fml  |  21

If you look up "feminism" in the dictionary, it actually says "the doctrine advocating social, political, and all other rights of women equal to those of men". In order to be a feminist, a person must support gender equality, not matriarchy.