You mean make me a Sammich

That pretty much defines irreconcilable differences...

So... you marry him, take the vows and everything. Then you want us to feel sorry for you because you ****** up your own life and want a divorce? I can't say I'd want to stay with you, you sound like a real bitch. Your husband's a stronger man than I.

my ex bf did exactly the same thing when i said i wanted to break up, he said 'well i dont', end of discussion. i broke up with him 2 days later over the phone. he isn't respecting what you want.

some men are abusive and it isnt that easy to just up and leave. and restraining orders are just a piece of paper. if someone wants to "hurt/kill" you, the restraining order is the last damn thing they'll be worried about. death do us part....but there are some things you cant forgive/get over. seriously. people shouldnt even get married. it would solve the whole divorce thing. god. IGNORANCE SEEMS TO BE PLENTIFUL ON THIS SITE

YDI for wanting to divorce him!

So what, you want to divorce him so you can take half of his stuff which he worked for?

What exactly is stopping you from doing it anyway?

Does the phrase "Women's Rights" ring any bells? There are ways of divorcing him even if he doesn't want it. Talk to a lawyer or your local human services. Either way, GTFO!

why did this even get on FML? sounds like you're too weak to walk out on him. grow a pair and leave if you want. you're in control of your own life, or else get in the herd and start saying MOOOOOO