Today, I proudly informed my boyfriend that I am now a size 4, down from an 18, after months of dieting and exercising after he told me he would like me to be a size 6. He broke up with me for "not listening to what he wanted" and "being an overachiever". FML
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Today, my boyfriend bought me a pair of jeans. I couldn't fit into them, and he reacted to this by saying I've gotten too fat for him, and he can't be with me anymore. I took them off and saw they were a size 4. I've been a size 8 for the past 2 years, and he knows this. FML
Today, my girlfriend dumped me because I've recently become serious about getting fit, and have lost nearly 84 pounds. Apparently, when I was fat, I made her look smaller in comparison. When I got slimmer, she insisted I either gain the weight back or she'd leave. So she did. FML
Today, my boyfriend broke up with me because I'm now about 15 pounds overweight. When I called him a hypocrite as he's over 40 pounds overweight, he said that his weight didn't matter because "it's the girl's job to look hot." FML
Today, after my ex helped me drop over a hundred pounds, I broke up with him because I looked and felt so much better, and knew I could do better. Turns out he was the only thing keeping me slim, as I've put back on over twenty pounds. I asked him to take me back and he told me to fuck off. FML
Today, after months of dieting, I finally reached my goal weight. Excitedly I told my boyfriend, who gave me a beautiful dress as an early Christmas present. It was a size too small. FML
Today, after supporting my girlfriend for over a year in her endeavour to lose weight, exercise more, and eat better, my now-slender girlfriend dumped me, because she's found someone "better" than me. FML
Today, my boyfriend admitted to purposely sabotaging all my weight loss efforts. When I confronted him, he said it’s because he doesn’t want me to get thin and turn into one of those stuck up, snobby, mean girl types that wouldn’t date him in high school. We’re in our 30s dude, get over it! FML
Today, my boyfriend sent me a text that said, "I can't be seen with you anymore. You're too fat." FML
Today, my boyfriend of a year and a half informed me that he had "accepted" my stomach, even though it didn't conform to his "preference" for a flat stomach. He then added that his acceptance doesn't extend to my "chunky thighs". FML
Today, my boyfriend of 5 years dumped me, after he intentionally made me fat so that I wouldn't leave him. FML
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Fouisgras 0
What a d bag. He should be grateful. Good job.
kmapes 0
Congrats on losing all that weight! You definitely deserve better than that treatment though.
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dusty1030 0
**** him, you can get another guy. he's a turkey for being dumb. this is not an fyl.
Don_fml 0
YDI - Not because you did anything really wrong... except have a douchbag for a BF. Eff him for asking you to lose weight to begin with. Chubby chix rOOl.
rustyrox 0
Well, you've got a bangin body baby, work it! That's fantastic! You deserve a nicer guy, keep up the healthiness for yourself.
konekohotaru 0
Congratulations on losing all that weight! =) I'm sorry your boyfriend was such an ass.
budtian 0
omg that's great, how did you manage that?? dang lol oh and you shouldn't have done it caz he told you to....so wrong motivationg but still amazing
happyvalleygirl 0
Now that you're down to that size, go out and find yourself a new guy who's not such a dick. Now that you look so dramatically different, you should be welcoming this opportunity; better health, more confidence and probably a ton of fun new activities that you can do now that you couldn't do so well before! Find a friend who's also active and KEEP UP your new healthy lifestyle. You might have regrets about the guy, but look where it got you now. Keep your chin up!
B0SSAN0VACHICK 0
(1) Congratulations on the wonderful achievement! (2) YDI because you changed for a guy. D: (3) FYL because he is a huge asshole for (a) making you change and (b) being dissatisfied with your effort! All in all, YOU are awesome. You should go partyin' girl! Get some great new guy(s)!
dramakat11 0
Forget that ass! Seriously, how anal is he? Enjoy your sexy new bod and have some fun! But make sure you don't fall into the trap of another superficial guy.
chocolemonade 6
I'm sorry but hate that you assume if you are a bigger size you AUTOMAICALLY must have to only get a loser boyfriend, because all the good ones are with the size 6's and 4's. All the good ones shouldn't care about your weight unless its a health thing, if your bigger and healthy, theres no reason it should be an issue. Weight shouldn't be a concern, health should. People forget that a lot. But theres nothing wrong with the OP losing weight if she wants to, good for you :).
xb6fer 0
WOW!!!!! I'm entering eighth grade and at 5'6 I'm 165lbs. I've been trying to loose weight so badly but I eat horribly :( How did you do it?!?!?!?!?!?!!? PLEASE ANSWER!!!!