By Anonymous - 02/05/2015 02:22 - United States - San Francisco
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You expected to be a god your first try? Try being good at anything compared to an experienced person your first try.. you don't lose your virginity to your love! you have a fee practices first?! everyone knows that! or that's what I've been telling myself while looking for my one true love! practicing >.>
Ah, I see you're missing the female perspective here. #48 You didn't "kill it" your first time. It's just not possible. Best case scenario is that she was a virgin, or inexperienced too, so you could learn technique together. Most girls don't even orgasm from penetration for several years after they start having sex. And the ones who orgasm sooner than that aren't banging virgins.
Ok since everyone wants to bombard me with whatever they think they know, it was not her first time when I lost my virginity, I made her orgasm and she was in shock because she had previously thought she orgasmed but then she learned that day, what an orgasm was. We continued to have sex for several years after that and it went very well, so have fun thinking whatever you want. You can know what you're doing thing first time, like I said sex isn't very hard everyone sort of at least knows somewhat what to do before they do it...God damn
To be honest I unknowingly took my boyfriend's virginity. I could never have guessed it was his first time. Yea I didn't have a roaring orgasm but it was fun, enjoyable, and we had great chemistry. Virgin sex between under 20 year olds, generally, is awkward and male-orgasm-focused. But everyone is different.
Regardless what age you lose your virginity, you'll always be better after you've practiced, and ascend you'll continually get better. You're still in college, so to most 30 year old women, you would seem pretty bad in bed, There's a learning curve to sex, whether you're still too young to realize it or not.
Then she's NOT the girl of your dreams. Nobody does great on their first time, OP, and even if it wasn't your first time, her being rude and unkind about it automatically makes her not worth your time.
At least she left- she sounds like a pretty horrid person. You deserve better OP :)