Your mom should be putting less food in your trough instead of whining about all the plus-size clothes she has to wash.

Your mother sounds insensitive. I've been where you are OP. My mother is very overweight and I was brought up on her diet. Struggled with my weight all of my life. Finally, around 16/17 I decided to take action instead of feeling sorry for myself. Education is key and going about it in a responsible manner ensures long-term success. It's scary because you're going up against yourself and often we're our own worst enemy. It's not simply going on a diet but it's an overall lifestyle choice. It takes a while for you to learn to discipline yourself and get out of old habits. But once you realise how much better you feel, how you've improved in several aspects and feel how awesome it is to be high on adrenaline, then you'll feel so much better for it. Sure, you'll slip up and binge on junk, or get a little lazy. Just pick yourself back up and keep going!

that's bad bro

What worries me is OP morbidly obese, or a normal size and her mom a size 0....and mom considers any pair of jeans bigger than size 6 "two pair."

Hard to judge when it comes to one's weight. It really happens that sometimes people gain weight regardless of their diet. It doesn't hurt to try eating healthier and hitting the gym though.

Get busy in the gym!

It's time to start eating healthy and working out! If u don't like it, do something about it.

Sure, it's a wake-up call, but what's with your mother's obsession with counting the jeans as she puts them in the washer? Can she not tell when it's full by looking, or does she do that to make sure they all come out again?

YDI, start taking care of yourself.

Your mother deserves it. If you're that obese and you're her child and living with her eating the food that she makes, it's all on her to keep you healthy. What she's done to you is child abuse. You should be taken away and given to a family that actually cares about your health. I know your pain...