By dazed and confused - 17/12/2013 01:50 - United States - Tampa
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So maybe start a new band? If they don't appreciate you then they don't deserve you.
I'm betting they'll be asking for him back. Remember, the other band member already quit once. And if you started the band, did you chose the name. If so, the name of the band is yours. I don't know how well known your band is, or if you play gigs, but you could stick it to them by making them start fresh. They'll be a totally new band with no reputation.
This exact thing happened to my husband. In his situation, the quitter convinced them that since my husband was in a relationship he'd be leaving soon anyway. The quitter also said he was the real 'talent' in the band; less than a month later he re-quit the band to do solo work. He was an ass.
Why was that guy still allowed to be around your band if he quit? The fuck? You have shitty band mates there. Go make a new band.
And your band just welcomed him right back? That's a stupid decision. Hopefully they'll realize when he leaves again.