I hope yot have some papers for him to sign..?

Mabe it was his new girlfriend , him saying it was a hooker, any way sent him papers and that would be a great surprise .

This really sucks... at least everyone knows why you're leaving him and won't blame you. He can't really deny he was going to cheat (and it's likely that this wasn't the first time). Get checked for STDs, a lawyer, and a better man. I think "birthday prostitute while your wife is out of town" cheating is one of the less bad forms of cheating, but it's still shouldn't be forgiven easily, probably not at all. Stay strong and follow your dreams.

Well...now you know. And knowing is half the battle.

Wow, that's rough but you learned a hard sad lesson, and hopefully you will find trust again! You deserve it!

He wanted to invite one of his friends

Hooker? She's not a hooker, honey. She's actually a mattress expert who was trying out our bed to see if our mattress was firm enough so we don't hurt our backs. Ya gotta believe me. I was doing this for you.

Lol owned

Everybody should get herpagonasyphilaids at least once.

surprise him with a divorce ? you're better off without the douche-bag , i feel sorry for you tho op you were trying to do something nice for him and in the process he has embrassed you & cheated .FYL