By jada - 04/01/2012 23:29 - United States
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Sorry for being suh a dumbass but heroine is the one you inject right? Cause at school on the last day before the break in my last class, the dude who sat beside me came in late and he came in smelling like shiit. Like cigarettes and some other thing he smoked cause the smell was worse than cogarettes I couldnt get out of my seat. Felt like just ripping my nose off ._.
You guys are wayy overly critical of OP. guess what u become great at when addicted to heroin? Doing everything possible to get it and everything possible to hide it. He could have greatest girl in the world. It's possible to hide it. And as for the bf, not only terrible pieces of scum can get addicted to heroin, so there's nothing saying he isn't a great guy. *source - personal experience.
I just found out my husband has been usin heroin for a year. We are really close too. Some people hide it really well. And when you don't know what signs you're looking for, most people (including myself) would never dream that their loved one would do something so stupid. I feel for you OP, this sucks.
Thank you for saying what I would post. I had a similar experience as the OP and I had no clue he was using either. Drug addicts are very good at lying. So those people shouldn't be so quick to blame her for not knowing, or calling her stupid, because its more common than you think.
Ok for everyone bashing her, how does her not knowing make her a bad girlfriend? Drug users often hide their addictions really well. there are times even people within their own family doesn't know what drug they've doing because they hide all signs and this could go on for years if money is not an issue.
that's not something you wanna hear :( at least he has the decency to find help!
Maybe he thinks of her too delicately to just bluntly tell her, hey babe I'm addicted to heroin.. Things like that are deep and can frighten people into thinking there will be no support, especially at a time when a person is at their worst and their mind is not right. Maybe he didn't want to chance loosing her but needed help to figure out the correct way to let her know and admit to himself something serious and potentially damaging not only to his relationship but to himself is going on.. Hence the checking himself into getting help.. Just saying :p
Or maybe he didn't tell his mom and the people at the rehab facility called her for something. Or maybe he's a minor. Maybe, JUST MAYBE, he needed to get there before he could change his mind and didn't have time to call her. Don't assume, it makes an ass out of u and me. Except just you in this one(;
My opinion: Is that supposed to make up for the secret that he has been keeping. I understand that he was scared to tell her, but that doesn't make it alright. The most important thing in any relationship is honesty and communication. he failed at both. Telling someone that you're addicted is frightening, but if you were the OP, would you rather have him tell you or would you want him to lie to you. I was looking at this from my perspective. If I were in a relationship with this guy I would have been really pissed of, because he lied to me. I have wondered about all the scenario's you just said before I typed my comment and they didn't matter to me. The worst thing that you could to me is lie. Thats why I think that it's horrible to have to find out like this. I was just giving my opinion. My bad there. I thought that I was supposed to give my opinion. Next time i type a comment here i will let people know that it's my opinion maybe we can avoid stuff like this in the future. @ 107, the only ass here is you. You could have just asked me why I was looking at the situation from that perspective, but instead you decided to be an ass. :) ( I use a smiley face to hide the fact that i just called you an ass and to make you feel better) Feel free to thumb it down all you want. I was just giving my opinion like I'm supposed to do.
I had a similar situation, except I was too busy being a heroine on Skyrim.
And u didn't know ?? Omg I would use the oppurtunity to fond someone better
Wow. And you never knew this..? I think if my boyfriend was addicted to heroin I would know.
Meanwhile at 13's boyfriend's house: "There's a bunch of Colombians coming in Friday. New guys. They say they got two keys for us, for openers. Pure coke. Hotel in Miami Beach. I want you go over there. If it's what they say it is, you pay 'em and bring it back. You do that, you get five grand!"
Ummmm... Are you sure that's legit, and not just a lie he's telling you cuz he's too wussy to break up with you?