Its hard to ask someone to dance. Always worried the person might say no. So when someone asks, go easy on them! Your answer def could have sounded like a 'no' to him.

You did that to yourself....

Well, you sort of screwed yourself over there, OP.

Always accept...and you learned that the hard way...maybe someone else will ask you...if not go anyway and just hope he doesn't have a date...

It's not called being modest. It's called fishing for compliments. I would have walked away too. Next time a guy shows interest just be grateful and stop playing games. He's already showing interest. Don't make him jump through hoops by convincing you that you are worth his time, and you are much better than you think you are.

I know what it's like to not have that much confidence as part of your personality so I get that but sometimes ya gotta fake it until ya make it ya know?

Next time just accept.

pshhh. just own it next time and say yes! he will probably find confidence more attractive!

Sometimes self deprecating humor or comments go over peoples heads. Some do not understand modesty either. As for you, I think that guy does not what he is missing. :)

OP sometimes "yes" is the only answer you need.. dumbass