This Charming Man

By Anonymous - 21/04/2021 14:00

Today, I explained to my man child of a boyfriend that we don't reuse dirty dishes. We have to wash them. He doesn't think it's gross and yelled at me, throwing the pan in the sink. Oh, he also refuses to wash dishes. FML
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I'll bet money he does this with other essential chores and activities so simple solution: break up and find a more mature individual if he doesn't grown the hell up

He’s not boyfriend material.

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I mean I reuse some of my dishes like pans depending what I've cooked in them, like if there's nothing stuck to the pan and can be wiped off with a paper towel easily then I think its fine, if there a bunch of stuff stuck to it then yeah definitely wash that shit, also I'll use the same plate all day as long as there's nothing stuck on it. but I would definitely find it annoying that he doesn't even do dishes, he should definitely be doing some dishes seeing that he lives there too

Suaria 37

The thing is bacteria tend to feed off of food even if we can't necessarily see the food or bacteria, it is there. The best temperature for bacteria to grow is between 40-140 degrees Fahrenheit. So room temperature is an excellent temperature for bacterial growth. It's best to wash dishes before using them again because you could have pathogens growing on the food.

doesnt bacteria grow on plates itself after they are washed & sitting on the racks?

Did you just move in together? I'm more worried about his anger issues. What else doesn't he do? Does he yell a lot? I'd leave and not come back My cast iron gets wiped clean. Maybe get paper plates?

I'll bet money he does this with other essential chores and activities so simple solution: break up and find a more mature individual if he doesn't grown the hell up

He’s not boyfriend material.

Leave that guy, OP. He ain't worth the headaches and the risk to get sick.

bleachedraven 14

agreed

Again I'm asking. Why are you staying with such a moron?

so wash your own dishes and don't touch any others

Because this never works. BF will use every dish available and never clean them. Just toss the bf.

lol, I'd toss him too, he's not even worth the effort of separating dishes because he's just asking for critters... filthy animal...

RED FLAG!!!! He's another abuser.

So dump him. problem solved.

If he's acting like a child, he should be treated like one. Take away his XBox or whatever his current favorite possession is. And seriously reevaluate the relationship.