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either way you decide about the pregnancy honey make sure you tell him to f*** off

Keep your baby and lose the man-child. Seriously, what did he think would happen when you two are intimate?? A similar thing happened to me except my abusive ex tried to control me through the kid and when he figured out that I would never let that happen, he told me to abort. My son is now a year old and one of the happiest kids I have ever known or have met. My ex has never seen him once or given me a penny, which was my choice and I have absolutely no regrets, best decision I ever made. Especially considering that I met my now-husband not too long after and he applauded my choice to keep the baby, despite him not being his own kid. Now I'm pregnant with my husband's child! The best decision is never any easy one to make, I believe it will eventually all work out in the end, have faith and trust in yourself. Good luck!

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either way you decide about the pregnancy honey make sure you tell him to f*** off

I'd say good luck to him chasing up his long lost child after you keep the baby and drop him out of your life like a ton of shit.

now is the time to go to the magistrate for a restraining order, also the police for a charge of domestic abuse. while you are at it, inform the police that your BF is a flight risk, and force him to turn in his passport.

Americans never cease to amaze

Are you insane?

None of what they said even remotely sounds American. Can I buy some of what you are smoking?

Just move to Texas where it's not an option. And you can get great bbq!

I'd tell him to get fucked. And keep your baby. But it's ultimately your choice. I wish you the best op.

I think if you can prove he abandon you bc of the pregnancy an he didn’t try to use any protection then he should be held accountable an have charges pressed an still get in trouble. I mean kinda shitty to abort if you want the kid an he doesn’t.

Keep your baby and lose the man-child. Seriously, what did he think would happen when you two are intimate?? A similar thing happened to me except my abusive ex tried to control me through the kid and when he figured out that I would never let that happen, he told me to abort. My son is now a year old and one of the happiest kids I have ever known or have met. My ex has never seen him once or given me a penny, which was my choice and I have absolutely no regrets, best decision I ever made. Especially considering that I met my now-husband not too long after and he applauded my choice to keep the baby, despite him not being his own kid. Now I'm pregnant with my husband's child! The best decision is never any easy one to make, I believe it will eventually all work out in the end, have faith and trust in yourself. Good luck!

Probably a subject you should have discussed before you started fucking.

Yeah relationships are challenging. Just to throw some numbers are you, nothing about this is uncommon. -About 50% of babies are unplanned -About 25% of women have had an abortion if they are 45+ -Pro life ad campaigns might have you think otherwise but for about 10 weeks it's just a pill. Regardless though, that dude sucks for giving you an ultimatum. People who do that don't respect you and a relationship without respect isn't anything.

Either decision now you need to get rid of him, he won’t look after you after the abortion and he clearly won’t look after the kid. Most importantly if you chose not to keep the pregnancy make sure you have support around you, even when it’s just a pill it can be really difficult on your mental health. This is coming from experience, it’s important to talk about it

the decision on the baby is yours to make. either way that piece of shit needs to go