By Anonymous - 16/09/2021 10:59
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now is the time to go to the magistrate for a restraining order, also the police for a charge of domestic abuse. while you are at it, inform the police that your BF is a flight risk, and force him to turn in his passport.
I've never in my life heard an American call an attorney or a judge a "Magistrate," but regardless of where OP is from, it IS his responsibility to to child to support it since he helped make it. Granted they should have had the pregnancy/children discussion before now, but on the other hand, if he absolutely did not want children, guess what? There are ways to prevent that!
Yeah relationships are challenging. Just to throw some numbers are you, nothing about this is uncommon. -About 50% of babies are unplanned -About 25% of women have had an abortion if they are 45+ -Pro life ad campaigns might have you think otherwise but for about 10 weeks it's just a pill. Regardless though, that dude sucks for giving you an ultimatum. People who do that don't respect you and a relationship without respect isn't anything.
Either decision now you need to get rid of him, he won’t look after you after the abortion and he clearly won’t look after the kid. Most importantly if you chose not to keep the pregnancy make sure you have support around you, even when it’s just a pill it can be really difficult on your mental health. This is coming from experience, it’s important to talk about it