By Anonymous - 07/04/2021 23:00
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So basically he's right, you kinda trapped him. Because if you know if it's a boy or a girl, it means it's probably too late to get an abortion. You made your choice on your own, not even thinking about what your ex would want. YDI.
I didn't put 2 and 2 together on how long it would have to have been to know the gender at first...but for the uninformed out there, most places won't tell you gender until HALF WAY through the pregnancy, so she knew for a while if she knew the gender.
You can find out at 14 weeks, but that still means she had enough time to take pee tests, also get her first ultrasound, and possibly an NIPT for gender blood testing which takes even more time to get back the results of. She definitely knew she was pregnant for a while before telling him. Unless this was one of those super late discoveries where you get smacked with all the info all at once.
At least four months. I wonder if she lied about her period. I'm also worried of how she hid the pregnancy if its at the six month mark. I was skinny when I had my kids. At two months I had a baby bump. I totally missed the gender thing. I wonder if she had managed to hide it, would she be on "I didn't know I was pregnant "