Sex workers unite!

By not a fan - 07/04/2021 08:00 - United States

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Today I’ve been called a prude, a misogynist, a controlling bastard and worse all because I have a problem with my girlfriend masturbating for strangers online. She has an OnlyFans and I hate it. FML
I agree, your life sucks 1 764
You deserved it 411

Same thing different taste

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Simple solution: break up and find someone who isn't a sex worker.

Decipherme 11

Well whats her name? 🤣 totally kidding fella. Look - you do NOT have to tolerate that. It is perfectly acceptable for you to be true to your values for YOURSELF. Don’t compromise your beliefs for a piece of ass. If you stay- it will just fester and build resentment which is not good for either of you. I get it, you may love her but you will love many in a lifetime - respect & honor also play a role in a relationship. To thine own heart be true.

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Simple solution: break up and find someone who isn't a sex worker.

Decipherme 11

Well whats her name? 🤣 totally kidding fella. Look - you do NOT have to tolerate that. It is perfectly acceptable for you to be true to your values for YOURSELF. Don’t compromise your beliefs for a piece of ass. If you stay- it will just fester and build resentment which is not good for either of you. I get it, you may love her but you will love many in a lifetime - respect & honor also play a role in a relationship. To thine own heart be true.

Jon Tessler 14

if you can't be supportive of her no matter what job she has, either break up with her, or tell her to break up with you. also here is some truth for ya, she may show her body on OF, but she was still sleeping with you. you are the one with the hang up, not her.

Look, you don't have to like it but it's her life, so here is what you do, do you like her more than you hate OF? Yes? Get over it. No? Then you should break up. Do not even think about trying to leverage the breakup as a way to change her desire to make her own money. Because what these people said isn't inherently right or wrong, not everyone has the same feelings towards shit, but it's how you've gone about it that makes them say what they've said. So do what I said, make a choice. Love her and accept her choice, or don't love her and move on.

This is a form of cheating. And the fact that she doesn't care about your opinion on her performing sex acts for others shows she doesn't value your relationship. Dump her and find someone who shares your opinions on what is and isn't ok sexually.

Very sorry about that, you did well in knowing your values

I'm gonna hazard a guess that its more than just you "having a problem" with it, and you've been a wild a$$ about it. accept your girlfriend in all her glory or leave.

There's nothing wrong with being a sex worker (which is what having an Only Fans account is), but if you'd rather not date someone in that line of work, you two aren't a match.