Today, I found out that the generous gift from my boyfriend of a new iPhone was only given so he could use the "Find my phone" function to make sure I'm always where I say I am each day. I'm being stalked by my own boyfriend. FML
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Today, I found out the person who's been stalking and harassing me online was actually my now ex-boyfriend. He only confessed as I finally picked up the phone to report it to the police. He basically said he wanted me to turn to him for comfort and protection, so he could "feel like a man". FML
Today, I found out my boyfriend's mom tried to bribe him with an iPhone to dump me. He accepted. FML
Today, I found out my stalker is my mom's new boyfriend. FML
Today, my boyfriend of two years told me I was being too obsessive. This is the guy who has gone through my phone two separate times and deleted all of my male contacts. FML
Today, I found out that the threatening and insulting messages I received from my boyfriend's "stalker ex" were actually sent by him. Why? Because he cheated and he didn't want to admit it. I'm dating a psycho. FML
Today, my stalker - an annoying guy who's dedicated the past three years of his life to stalking me at every turn - somehow got a hold of my number and started texting me at 10pm about how I have no life. FML
Today, I found out that my cell phone bill was much higher than normal. After investigating, I realized that a text conversation I had with my stalker, telling him multiple times not to contact me anymore, was to an international cell phone. I have to pay to be stalked. FML
Today, my boyfriend came over and dropped off my phone, which I'd left at his place the night before. He immediately left in a sulk. As I looked through my texts, I discovered he was only so moody because I hadn't answered any of his calls or messages. I'm dating an idiot. FML
Today, I found out the real reason why me and my boyfriend of four and a half months have "so much in common". He used to be my stalker, who followed me around in a black hoodie and always posted stuff on my Myspace as an anonymous person. FML
Today, my boyfriend broke up with me via text message. Every 20 minutes or so, I'll get a notification that I have a new message, and I check it just to find that same message sitting there. I'm being trolled by my own phone. FML
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yoshithecat 15
Be cautious, as my ex tried that same thing on me. His reasoning for it turned out to be because he was cheating on me, and wanted to make sure I wasn't doing the same! (I wasn't) Enjoy though!
jnanderson 16
My parents do this. It sucks. Just turn off location services.
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adam_tajyar 10
U can turnoff the "Find my iPhone" or delete it off ur iPhone. If it's not on the device ur trying to find, it can't be tracked
Nacker323 4
and that's how you know you're dating a controlling prick.
sarafyna2011 6
Turn off the cell data and wifi, he can't track you then
kbolt89 5
Get out...now. You don't need any one that insecure and controlling in your life. It is only a sign of worse behavior to come.
JoseIsAdork 31
op, I would run and run fast! to me that is a huge red flag right there. most people who have control issues do it out of insecurity or at least that's what I've witnessed first hand and will go to any length to find out "what's really going on". I would put an end to this while you can, I hope everything is OK, but that's a huge red flag in my eyes, I wouldn't stick around.
Alastor13X 8
I'd dump his ass. if there is no trust in a relationship, it's time to move on.
JoseIsAdork 31
another thing I hope it was OK to add to your comment was that a lot of the time upon trying to leave someone who is very controlling they will say "if you leave me I'll end my life" and use other threats ect. but if a situation like that comes up... get out, call 911 if there is a chance of something happening, let the policed handle it. don't ever stick around though. I have had this happen to me before, usually when someone takes drastic measures like this, it only gets worse from there. I agree that getting out now is the best thing to do! *edit*
rita91 5
Turn it off
mrrossh 3
Go to a club and see a male stripper, then text your boyfriend about it. Oh, and don't forget to say "His is bigger, and tastes better."
chellovesher 6
Hey, so I'm not trying to be a negative nancy.. But I think you might need a new boyfriend. By tracking your phone he's showing signs of controlling behaviour, I wonder if he also gets mad at you frequently over things that you didn't do or don't even understand how you could've done them .. I dated someone who was psychologically abusive for a long time. I understand you may love him and think that "it's not that bad" or "things are good as well" but you see eventually the good goes away and it is replaced by the bad. Best of luck to you, if you think you may need help there are probably many outreach places for you to call. I also realize this May piss you off but hey, at least you'll think about what I said. xx