By Anonymous - 26/09/2017 19:34
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I feel your pain OP. I had to sit through my daughter's wedding to a guy who's very existence I hate. I detest every breath he takes and was praying that the tree they got married under was going to fall and kill him, No such luck
Unless he's like 70, I don't really see a big problem. Sure, it's unusual but if they're happy, there's nothing wrong.
20 year olds are so young though. I feel like there's a pretty good chance that this guy's either incredibly emotionally or socially stunted, or a flat-out predator. What could a man who's probably at least 50ish possibly be getting out of a relationship with someone so young, other than a person who's dependent on him that he can manipulate and control? It's creepy. I'm 30 and I'd never date a 20 year old. Why on earth would I want to? They're in a completely different place in terms of social and personal development and maturity, even if they are "technically" adults.
That's a lot of assumptions! I'm an older guy and I still have an optimistic outlook on life. I find many (not all) women close to my age are cynical and pessimistic. Women who have optimism that matches mine tend to be younger. I'm looking for a mutually respectful relationship where she influences my life as much as I influence hers. I'm not going to disqualify any consenting adult because of her age.