By tina247 - 24/01/2011 15:50
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this whole marriage vows and customs kinda lame, why is everyone forced to do it, there's other important factors in marriage other then walking down the isle or a lame vows, we can be affectionate in other ways and just showing that you'll always be there should be enough . peace!
I remember that episode, lol. At least your husband likes good tv! On a more serious note, make him sleep on the couch for a few days.
It's not humiliating if no one else knows about it. Suck it up, princess.
This is true, but I doubt a majority of them will put two and two together. It was years ago since I've seen the movie, for instance, and I've completely forgotten how the speech even goes. Either way, ever think that maybe he wanted to be able to say something sweet at your wedding to make it special, but isn't good at that sort of stuff? At least he did something- my best friend's husband redid some of the lyrics of "Tonight" by Trick Daddy and sang it to her at their wedding. THAT would have been mortifying.
True, true, but be honest, it is not that difficult to create your own vows. If you are really without inspiration and creativity, you could just say 'I want to marry you, because you are the only person in the world who can make me feel so happy and blablabla.' Again, being romantic is not difficult. I, as being a creative and good writer myself, would not appreciate it if my partner would steal his vows from someone else. Vows come from the heart, everybody can come up with something. Maybe something that isn't as good as the vows in 'When Harry met Sally', but I would like them more, because they were made only by him, only for you.
being romantic is dificult if you aren't a romantic person. that's like a saying rocket sience isn't dificult you just have to understand it. the entire understand it part however is where it get's dificult. i speak from expirience romance confuse the hell out of me and whille i can fell the romance of a good movie or book i would never be able to make a gesture that was the least bit romantic without it being on acident.