Not again

By orgasmsareoverratedanyway - 25/09/2012 17:42 - Norway - Myre

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Today, I realized just how clingy my boyfriend is, when he pulled out in the middle of sex, lay down and hugged me, and said in his "adorable" voice that he didn't really want to have sex, but cuddle. I wouldn't mind if it didn't happen so often. FML
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walmartpaysme 15

Well, at least he loves you. Have you tried talking to him about it?

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enormouselephant 15

At least he's sweet. Maybe if you start paying more attention to your vibrator he'll get jealous and get the hint...

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Welshite 39

Well at least you know that he doesn't keep you around just for the sex; he just really wants to spend time with you.

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123man 11

Say, "Just a second, dear," and then finish yourself off in front of him, holding nothing back.

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PipingMouse 14

You could just go ahead and cuddle with him. Maybe the mood will re-appear somewhere in the middle of it? I think that it's good that he wants to actually spend time hugging and talking to you.

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hateevryone 14

It could be worst. He sounds like a sweet guy. Hold on to him.

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gracehi 31

Sounds like holding onto him is the problem! *Ba dum tsss*

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lacespace 8

Aka he knows he can't make you cum.

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gracehi 31

On the one hand it's sweet that he wants affection rather than merely sex, on the other hand it's selfish for him to assume that you.don't have sexual needs, particularly in the middle of sex. I imagine that experience must be very frustrating for you. If he cares about you, he should understand if you explain that to him. I'm not saying he should give you sex every time you want it, but he should at least show you the courtesy of simply telling you he's not in the of mood rather than leading you on and teasing you like that.

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lilpanda4 5

I don't think that it is teasing particularly and he is just one of those guys that wants to have someone in their life rather than being intimate but I agree otherwise and op I am sorry I'm sure you have a lot of sexual frustration :/

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gracehi 31

If willingly stopping in the middle of consensual sex because you didn't want to do it in the first place isn't teasing, then I don't know what is.

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larisonr 4

The fact that you mentioned consensual made me chuckle at the alternative. Like, going through the motions of being about to rape someone, then just, "Nah, I'm only playing."

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gracehi 31

I meant that freely agreeing to have sex when you don't really want to and then stopping during intercourse is teasing. On the other hand if he objected to the idea to begin with but then was somehow coerced or forced into sex, then he wouldn't be a tease and OP would be a an asshole or worse. My guess is that in this case it's the former not the latter, but if I'm wrong about that then OP is the one who needs to be more considerate of her partner.

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FlashBurn 13

Well, I think we know who the woman in the relationship is...

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gracehi 31

Yes, we do. OP is clearly the woman in the relationship because we can see her gender symbol in the corner there.

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Grimmerie 31

83, you are very quickly becoming my new favourite person. I love how you're kicking traditional gender roles and stereotypes in the face. =D

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gracehi 31

According to my boyfriend, blue balls are a myth. But maybe he can only speak for himself. Maybe some men get blue balls while others don't.

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nightfire2258 24

Oh it exists. It happened a few times to me before.

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BossPathfinderGM 14

39- Blue balls are not a myth, but they do not affect every man. I'm one of the lucky ones that is not inflicted with them.

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Enslaved 36

I agree that not all guys are the same. Some have balls that are more sensitive than others. I've heard of guys being in severe pain because of blue balls while others can take a cold shower and be fine afterwards.

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perdix 29

If he really wanted to cling to you, wouldn't it make sense for him to fire off his glue gun? You should try to find out if he treats his boyfriend the same way.

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rhysfucker 24

I guess I'm just a pig, but I've never even contemplated stopping during sex unless it was for a water break.

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perdix 29

#44. I wouldn't even stop for a water break. Oink!

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