Moving

Well now you have a decision to make. Which is more important to you?

Take the job and move . There will be another

Number 1: that’s up to her. She has to live with whatever consequences of her decision. She’ll always wonder: what if?
Number 2: most jobs just as soon fire you for whatever reason. The employee is just another name in the office white pages. But love, good or bad circumstances is forever.

which one will help you in the long haul? is this true love or is this fear holding you back? do what you think is right

Talk on the phone, skype, write messages, letters even. Try long distance. See if you Teil can make it work. If yes, it is meant to be. If there are difficulties in the future, you'll probably know by then if the man or the job is more important to you.