He has issues

He must not fare well come Halloween time with so many males with faces decorated.

Forget that, he better not watch any TV or movies, as probably every single person is wearing makeup.

He must be fun at parties.

How do so many people end up so deep into relationships without realizing just how homophobic/misogynistic/racist/etc their partners are? What did you talk about before you got engaged, got married, conceived, gave birth and started raising a kid? The weather?

This could have been a new attitude from the husband. People change, and not always for the better.

Exactly people get married as if it’s nothing and have no clue who their partner is. I know Iots of people getting married or who have very soon into a relationship and when I ask questions like if their partners are religious like them I always hear “I don’t know” people don’t talk about the big stuff, just “hey I want to get married and have kids” “okay cool me too”

well time for him to INVOLUNTARILY go to angermanagement a therapy because he's obviously got some toxic issues you don't want your son to learn

you made him look like a cartoon, not RuPaul (which I only have a problem with since it's a lot more makeup for a young kid). your husband needs some urgent readjusting and your son needs encouragment that makeup is for everyone. sorry you discovered this so late op.

Wow. Did you know previously that your husband was an abusive misogynist?

That sounds so cute on your little one.

And the husband sounds like a prick...

Well you married the asshole I'm sure you must know what he's like by now.

U just did it as a joke. He should not have gotten that upset.

What the heck is wrong with your husband? Is he this caught up in gender roles? You did it as a joke and he berated you and brought you to tears. Not a good look for him. He owes you a huge apology.